I need a hug

[SimplyMe]

Hey guys, I just need someone to say "its OK." I got in a huge stupid fight w/ my Mom tonight and it really was something stupid and it was after dinner and I've gotten myself worked up and crying and now that I"m calming down I'm feeling kinda yuck and scared (cuz big dinner and lots of crying). Plus I feel like a horrible person fighting w/ my Mom, who I normally get along very well w/ and who has been my rock, on Thanksgiving of all days. And saying things I didn't mean. OK thats all.

[Carolee]

It is ok, everyone has said dumb things they didn't mean. It is a stressful time of year, plus thanksgiving can be stressful as well with guests, dinner ect. Maybe you could talk to her? I know after crying, that I feel yucky too, take some deep breaths and remind yourself that is why you feel that way. Try an dget some air as wlel, That hepls if you have eaten too much

[SimplyMe]

Thanks, Carolee. I think I'm feeling a bit better tummy wise, actually a little hungry tho still unsure. I hate fighting w/ my Mom or any one for that matter but especially her and especially today over soemthing ridiculous lol ugh. So, thanks for reminding me that I'm human and we all do that and that the stomach hurting is just from crying etc. It's been a couple hours so I'm assuming/hoping that if anything was going to happen it would have by now. ANyhow, thanks again! happy Thanksgiving!

[punchbuggy]

Dont worry fighting helps you build a stonger bound remeber whatever doesnt break you only makes you stonger . I also hate fighting with my mom but it happens and its all a part of this crazy thing called life. I hope you two get back to normal so and trust me im sure you will. Just take a breather and relax try to approach her when you feel that things are a bit cooler than they are right now and if you feel like the time is right apologize to her. Best wishes.

[daffodil]

(((Hugs))) Fighting happens, especially around the holidays, stress and all. I'm sure you guys will work it out.[img]smileys/smilies_01.gif[/img]

[harmonygirl72]

Hey! You know you can call if you need anything! I hope everything is okay with you and your mom!! We all say things we don't mean, especially to those closest to us, unfortunately. It'll be okay!!


Mary

[SimplyMe]

Aww, thanks guys! Yeah we worked it out, like we always do when we fight. We agreed that since we've both been under more stress than usual, plus holiday stress, something that should have and normally would have beena simple annoyance blew up and out of proportion. We were both reaching breaking point at the same time and it weren't purdy lol But now all is good. Thank you soo much for the support and kind words and I hope you all had a wonderful turkey day!