So when I was like 16 and 17 my sister was severely bulimic and would vomit in the shower and sinks, and all kinds of nasty nasty stuff that would send me into a panic attack. I had moved out of home but unfortunately I'm back there again (19) and she still lives there (she is 21). Every time I go to the bathroom if i smell that smell covered up with body spray or find traces anywhere in the toilet It makes me so nauseous I feel like giving up eating now cos I'm scared one day i'll be sick from the smell. And just the thought of all the germs sitting in there she could atleast disinfect and be the one to scrub the toilet. It affects me really BADLY and I can't deal with it (she only pukes in the toilet these days). Soon I'm gonna snap and we'll end up in an awful fight because this is scaring me to death for obvious reasons. I am even scared to eat just so I wont have to go to the bathroom but i can't really give up on drinking water can I.

WHAT on earth should I do? How does one talk to someone about this without offending them and starting a fight? I feel like putting up signs in the bathroom.


EDIT:

Oops she is 21...my parents have given up on her and I mentioned it to my dad lastnight he said it's my fault cos she's been 'worse since I moved back home'. She doesn't want help from no one she's too afraid to let it go, she doesn't really know about my phobia. I'm sure she'd remember the many times I'd run away from home after discovering she'd been vomiting in the shower and I was crying and screaming.. I was always angry at my mum cos she never threw her in the mental ward. I'm basically stuck with this til i can afford to move away from home again It's getting me really down.Edited by: duskandsummer