Just wondering if you guys feel like we fight our fears by all hanging out on a site like this or do we reinforce them? I personally feel helped by not being so alone with this fear, but my family has told me I am just reinforcing my fear and a lot of bad ideas. I have noticed that a lot of folks who say they're "cured" quit hanging out here or greatly reduce their visits, so I guess I want to know, why do you use IES forums and does it seem to help to talk about your fears?