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    ***WARNING: PLEASE DON'T READ IF YOU ARE A YOUNG EMET WHO ISN'T READY FOR ADULT-RELATED MATERIAL***


    Well, I have a bit of a triumph that embarrasses the heck out of me, but I'm proud of myself. After two years of marriage, and my husband's pleading, I finally "swallowed." Hee hee hee. I can't believe I had the guts to do it. I know he's been wanting me to for a long time, and I've been too afraid of the gagging factor. But I know he really wanted me to do it, and I thought to myself, "Heck, love DOES conquer all doesn't it?" And I did it. It wasn't bad at all. I could barely taste it. So emet ladies who are scared, it's NOTa big deal, after all. [img]smileys/smilies_09.gif[/img]



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    HDogg,


    Good for you!!! that is fantstic news! I am glad i am not the only one that isn't afraid of that!!!! Enjoy all the new found excitement!!! I am really happy for you and your triumph!!!


    Cheers


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    I've been afraid of it too. I have been taking little steps to my husbands delight. I have been married almost 3 years and have been so afraid of gagging. It is good to know that it can be done. Grats to you and I am sure your man is smiling big. LOL
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    Heather! Well Done babe! I bet ur hubby is smilin hey [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]

    god - im way to scared to swallow yet LOL - i just find it soooo gross. I feel like such a stupid baby but it makes me feel so sick - the look, the smell - god my poor boyf - he'll prob run off with some hot babe if i dont get my act together!

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    Well Done Heather!! Love conquers a lot, and I bet your Hubbie is proud of you [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]


    Emma your boyfriend will not run off with someone else, and if he did he wouldnt be worth much. You can only do what you feel comfortable with.


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    Louise - thats a def advantage! you are right - and i know deep down that he isnt thinking anytihng bad or hates me coz of it - he is always really happy(of course) when i venture down - but he knows that its not mega easy for me!

    grrr - bloody phobia!

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    But don't you think that because its not easy for you, because it is difficult for you he might appreciate it a bit more? Because if i knew someone found it hard to do something, but that they wanted to and they were willing to try anyway it would mean more to me.


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    Yes he soooo does Louise. he is always really greatful! and hes always like oh you know u dont have to - onl if u feel ok and really want to. im lucky he is so understanding. my first boyf was a w****r with a capital W! when we split up he said to me 'oh emma - if other guys had to wait so long then they would have finished wth u a long time ago.

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    If there was one reason I'd want to be a lesbian, it would be the oral sex factor--so much less messy! lol! [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]

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    Heather that is a fantastic acomplishment! I tried many time with my ex-bloke - not that he complains mind but the pre-cum is nasty enough at the moment for me! It took me three months with him before I even ventured down there!


    Maybe with the next "lucky" fella....hee hee!


    Anyway - congrats!! [img]smileys/smilies_04.gif[/img]


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    That is truely amazing that you were able to do that. My ex wanted that so badly but I couldn't because of being emetophobic. Besides I gag very easily. That wasn't the only reason we ended up splitting up but other aspects of my emetophobia were. This phobia got into the way of things. I know they say you marry in sickness and in health but both of us could not live up to those vows. [img]smileys/smilies_06.gif[/img]


    You should be very proud of yourself. Very admirable.


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    Ive only jst found this thread!!


    Nice one! Ive only done it once and it didnt taste great [img]smileys/smilies_05.gif[/img]so ive never done it again, im scared if i do it ill vomit or something and that would be embarrassin!!! Luckily my boyf doesnt mind [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]but its something id like to be able to do - that would keep my boyf interested i guess lol


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    Married 6 years,and Istill spit! I think my husband should just be glad I do it at all - that's the way I see it - and to be fair, he is. He doesn't ask me to swallow, so unless he does, I probably won't.
    Soluene

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    I guess I am truely lucky because my husband doesnt
    expect me to do that! He knows I hate it and besides he doesnt really
    care one way or another if he gets that! Tried it with someone one time
    who I dated when I was 20 and I did gag! I never wanted to do it again
    after that lol.



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    Gosh I'm late on this one but I'd like to add that I'm not afraid to gag but I think the texture and warmness is just uggggghhhhhhh........I didn't gag the only time I swallowed for my bf but I did feel queasy afterwards, maybe its cause I think its so raunchy, and my bf asks me all the time, he said if I swallowed I'd be the best he's ever had, and he's had older women with more experience than me, so I guess thats a bonus for me!!!!!! I am 24 and he is 38.


    I just can't bring myself to do it ever again, even pre makes me stop and get something to wipe it off before I go down again LOL

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    I'm with Terified Girl. I just don't like doing it. It doesn't make me gag or anything. The texture, look, and taste of it is nasty. I don't like the pre stuff either. I have to wipe it off before I continue also. lol I just don't like it. I guess some people do and some don't. [img]smileys/smilies_01.gif[/img]

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    Terrified Girl,....


    Only do it if you really want to and feel comfortable. Your boyfriend should understand and not pressure you in any way, or make sly comments that you'll be the best if you do swallow. I cannot deep-throat because my sensitive gag reflex. I have tried, and have made an honest effort to do so. Ian doesn't pressure me, and understands my fear of vomiting.


    If you just don't want to do, then don't.


    If you don't like the taste, trying pluging your nose before you swallow and you won't taste it while you do swallow.

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    Ok ladies here's a quick lesson...


    Been with my boyfriend for 8 years and I've been swallowin for 8 years...the first time i "went down there" I kinda did it by accident, it was in my mouth and i didn't know what to do with it so i just swallowed..hahaha[img]smileys/smilies_04.gif[/img]





    Anywayz I tested one of those theories from an adult book that says the taste is determined by what he eats...so make him eat some Vanilla ice cream or drink lots of Pineapple juice, it makes it tate sweet (trust me I've tried it and it does)Don't try to swallow after he eats something like seafood yuck gross then it's bitter...


    LOL I must sound like some sort of freak anywayz I hope I was of some help.[img]smileys/smilies_32.gif[/img]
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    To me, its the texture that gets me, not the taste. I can handle that part. I'm very texture oriented.


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