Everyone sorry again but I have to vent about the
lastest regarding my SIL and now you will see WHY!!!! I promise you
too, this is going to upset you and I dont want to upset anyone here
but.... I have to get this out. Maybe you will understand why I feel so
sickened by that b*ch. It doesnt help matters that I am feeling crappy
with a cold but this is what happened not that long ago. My mother
phoned me being very upset... I asked her what was wrong and when she
is upset like this, she doesnt THINK before she speaks. She was telling
me over and over again what a fool she and my dad were for treating my
SIL like a princess. She is halfway through her pregnancy (still v'ing
apparently) and I asked her what happened now.. my crazy SIL does not
want ANYONE (except for her friends of course) to know about her
pregnancy until after the baby is born... whatever. This is old news.
My mom is getting sick of keeping the secret so she told a few of her
close friends but told them to keep it hush hush. My brother was angry
at my mother for this too at first but he is starting to see that my
SIL is being rediculous about everything. So apparently my brother and
SIL were fighting all night last night. He tried talking sense into her
and told her once and for all to respect our family. Rightfully so...
my parents have treated her like a daughter, they were there for her
all the way when she had her surgery back in January... for goodness
sake my mother even begged me to get her a little gift and visit her!
They wouldnt have done the same for me, I guarantee you. But this is
not about this. They have given my brother and her money and she
gladfully took it... she spent their money on things that SHE wanted..
not needed. They gave her support and sympathy, again I didn't get that
when I needed it most over 2 years ago. Now my mother is truely
realizing that she has been kicked around? I understand that she
wanted to keep the peace but both of them went WAAAAYY overboard... and
just recently they spent over $200 on a dinner for them. Uggh...to be
honest, as much as I hate the witch I WAS willing to be civil and the
key word here is WAS!!! I'll tell you why I am no longer going to be
nice to her! Like I said when my mom gets upset she says things that
she shouldnt say not realizing it would upset others but my brother
told her today that the fight that he and the witch had was useless
because she is being unreasonable. He told my mother that SIL (even
though my family has been way too good to her) doesnt want anything to
do with us and hates my mom for blabbering to her friends about the
pregnancy! SIL told HER friends about it of course but here we go....
he also had to throw in there that she said she doesnt want anything to
do with us including ME! Not because I have been rude to her at times
(which I have since I have somewhat let my real feelings slip but
overall have been quite civil) why doesnt she want anything to do with
me? Well apparently this is what she said "Your family is crazy,
especially your sister with that wacky vomit phobia of her's!" and
apparently called me a nutcase for being an emet! I was seething mad
after hearing this and my first reaction was to phone the b*ch to give
her a piece of my mind but I forced myself to remain cool. As much as I
hate her with a passion, she is still carrying my neice or nephew and I
don't want to be the one responsible for anything happening to the
innocent child (poor child, with a mother like that???) couldnt give a
crap what happens to her. So I phoned my brother on his cell and asked
him what her horrible comment was about. He said that firstly my mother
had no right to blab that off to me but he knows how she gets when she
is overly upset. All my brother would say to me is that SIL thinks of
me as a fruitloop because of being afraid of a normal bodily
function!!! Normal to her of course, then this was kind of stupid of me
but I angerly said to him, "now what would posess her to say this? Tell
me someth