Stephen???

**harmonygirl72** · 10-30-2004, 10:55 AM

I hate to worry you all, but I have been beside myself with worry about Stephen, and I know he chats with a lot of you, so I was wondering if anyone has heard from him? I talked to him last on Tuesday night and he said he would e-mail me in the morning and chat with me that night (meaning Wed!). It is now Saturday and I have not heard from him at all! I know he had that gallbladder surgery, so I am so worried that something happened! I tried e-mailing him, I even tried looking up his phone number in the phone book...(I feel like a stalker now!), but I hate this worrying and not knowing what to do! Any advice or better yet, has anyone heard from him?

Thanks so much!

Mary

**r311dude** · 10-30-2004, 05:29 PM

I'm a little worried too thought I think I know what might have happened. He bought Grand Theft Auto : San Andreas, people have starved themselves just to play this game non-stop. If you think crack is addicting, than you haven't seen this game. But, I'm praying it is the game, cause I don't want anything happening to Stephen, he's such a positive influence on this board. [img]smileys/smilies_08.gif[/img]

**crazybeautiful** · 10-30-2004, 05:33 PM

I understand. lol. i was addicted to my supernintendo! WOOT!

Hope he's okay!

**harmonygirl72** · 10-30-2004, 05:45 PM

Thanks, but I really hope that's not it. Then, I would just be PISSED at him!

But, that would be better than if something happened to him.....

**Jenneh** · 10-31-2004, 05:12 AM

maybe his computer has broke Mary ........

just a thought i just had.....

Jen xxxxxx

**harmonygirl72** · 10-31-2004, 07:14 AM

That is possible, but he also has my phone numbers......unless he lost them or they were on his computer, too. Well, even if that happened to me, I thinkI would still go to the library or something to just send an e-mail saying I was okay.....But, not a bad idea, Jenneh! Thanks!

**sunshine16** · 10-31-2004, 11:37 AM

Hmm mary, well I am chatting to you on MSN now, so we will figure this out, I am as worried as you are, I care about him, we'll figure it out.

**Jenneh** · 10-31-2004, 11:39 AM

meep. got anywhere Laura? lol

im still baffled.

Jen xxxx

**sbias** · 10-31-2004, 09:59 PM

I am sorry for making people worry, I didn't mean too, and I love you all for being concerned, Andrew and I lost his mother on Wednesday morning while she was on her way to work. I wanted to post in here how I felt, but I haven't really spoken a word since my father banged on my door that morning. I wanted to respond but the words just wouldn't come, I was gonna respond to some e-mails yesterday, but Drew lost it, and I had to log off. My son is a mess, and cries constantly, I have no idea how to handle him. Please don't take any of this the wrong way. I love you guys. But I haven't felt like talking. I had to respond today, cause I really want you guys to stop worrying. Eaten and sleeping have been giant chores as of late. I am a wreck myself. I have been sitting shifting through paperwork and pictures, I am trying to find one for the paper, a lot of local people have come to my side, and been there for me.

I really didn't want to post this here, but I have gotten a lot of e-mails, and I really couldn't respond to them all. I have been just ate up with a lot of emotion right now. Thank you for the letters. I love you guys. I will try and talk to some of you in the morning.

Stephen

**trickyvicky** · 11-01-2004, 03:49 AM

Stephen,OMG!!!!! as i read this post,it brings such deepest sadness and tears to my heart..........i can't imagine how things must be for drew and u.....I know that what ever i say will not be anywhere near enough to comfort u but all i want to say is i'm here for u just like u have been for me in the last few weeks,with me losing my nan and helping me write such beautiful words to remember a very special lady.....i wish i was there to give u a big hug..........stephen i know u always like 2 be the joker but please don't forget that at a time like this we will keep u going,with support and love.....God bless u all and my heart and thoughts are with u at such a traumatic and difficult time

love vicky xxxxx

**crazybeautiful** · 11-01-2004, 04:57 AM

oh my god.

I'm sooo so sorry for your loss.

This must be a hard time for you and your little guy, thoughts/prayers are with you.

**e-lizabeth** · 11-01-2004, 04:59 AM

Stephen: I'm so sorry. There are no words.....Drew is blessed, however, to have a father as loving and caring and involved as you.

**2jo2** · 11-01-2004, 05:07 AM

Oh my gosh, Stephen, I'm so sorry. I just want to cry for you and for Drew. I'm sitting here and my heart just feels empty, I'm so so sorry. I'll be thinking of you.

**sbias** · 11-01-2004, 05:11 AM

Thank you.

**party_boi3423** · 11-01-2004, 05:13 AM

Oh my word! Im so dorry to hear that! I can't even imagine what you're going through must feel like. My prayers will be with you and Drew!

God Bless, Chris

**terified girl** · 11-01-2004, 05:29 AM

OMG I sit here unable to understand the words you just wrote stephen, I cannot believe what I am reading, God is so cruel sometimes, I know he took my father away so suddenly also,I cannot begin to understand what you are going thru because everyone goes thru a different experience with a death, I am in shock, and please Stephen, if you do want to talk, I would be very hapy to talk with you.

My sincerest apologies for both you and your son, and all the family.

Sonia

**terified girl** · 11-01-2004, 05:58 AM

does anybody know what state stephen live in??????

**lizard79** · 11-01-2004, 06:10 AM

hey stephen. i know i've never spoken to you before, but here's a site with a forum about grief and loss. might be helpful.

i'm so sorry to hear about your recent happenings. two family members of mine died suddenly this year as well and it was tough.

http://forums.psychcentral.com/index.php?Cat=

**clairethebear** · 11-01-2004, 06:56 AM

I am so so sorry Stephen. I cannot begin to imagine how you are feeling/what you are going through. We are all here for you. We all wish we could do something to help but I guess the only thing that will help right now is time. Once again, I am so sorry for your loss.

**giff1949** · 11-01-2004, 07:12 AM

Stephen,

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you must be going through. Just let people be there for you and minister to you and know that you have a lot of people who will be thinking and praying about you and Drew.

Debbie

**SullyMel** · 11-01-2004, 07:35 AM

I am so sorry Stephen about your loss. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I will pray for you and Drew. God will give you strength to get through this. Mel

**eyecandi512** · 11-01-2004, 08:01 AM

Stephen, I too am very sorry. I cannot imagine your pain right now, or your son's. I just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless, Danielle

**mbs730** · 11-01-2004, 08:23 AM

Stephen as we discussed on MSN earlier this am, if you need anything please let me know!

Miriam

**Hale** · 11-01-2004, 09:51 AM

I am so sorry. This must be a horrible and emotional time and I am thinking of you and Drew.

**sbias** · 11-01-2004, 10:14 AM

I really want to thank everyone for responding or talking to me, I have vented on a few of you this morning and I am really sorry, I don't think I am really ready to talk about things yet, and keep a somewhat level head. I know I flew off a little on some people and I wanted to say I was really sorry.

Plus right now, the last thing I want anyone to do is worry, people on these boards have so many things going on, I don't want to keep piling things on your shoulders, and that isa problem I have right now. I am venting and saying all kinds of things. I need a few more days, I need to shut this thing off, before I cost myself some important people. I need to stay away from work, and I need to put Drew in the car, and just go somewhere, take a drive and stay somewhere for a couple of days. Go somewhere nice, and try to do something as father and son.

I love you guys, I'll be back soon, I just don't want to harp at you, and I don't want to throw my s*** on your door step.

Mary, I would have called you, but my cell has been turned off. I need to go pay the bill today. I'm sorry, and to be honest Drew needed me. I have your number, I may call you from the road just to let you know where we are heading, and to put your mind at ease.

Thanks everyone,

Stephen

**arcky** · 11-01-2004, 10:50 AM

Stephen my heart goes out to you. I am going to pray for you and your family. I wish I could help. Unfortunately there is not much I can right now. I am very sorry-I may not be home again for a while. Please be with your son- he needs you more than ever. Thinking of you.

Blessings, Arcta

**terified girl** · 11-01-2004, 11:13 AM

I think that's a good idea stephen, drew probably needs to get his mind off his mom, omg, no way in hell is this acceptable. I'm sorry I have to go....this is too close to home.

Please do what you need for you and your son.

**kmarie** · 11-01-2004, 11:18 AM

Words can not expess how very sorry i am for you, drew and the rest of your family.

I think you are doing the right thing by getting away for a few days..spend soem time with your son..heal your hearts a wee bit..

I will be thinking and praying for you and of course we will all be waiting ehre with open arms when you are ready to talk to us.

please take care and give drew a big hug for me[img]smileys/smilies_12.gif[/img]

**wing** · 11-01-2004, 01:02 PM

Stephen, I'm truly sorry for what has happened. My prayers are with you.

**sunshine16** · 11-01-2004, 01:33 PM

My gosh Stephen...

I was so worried..I love you..but this...oh my gosh.

Stephen, I want you to have my sympthay. I went through what your son is going through, the loss of a parent, and if you ever want me to talk to him, put him in front of the key board. Stephen, you were always there in my time of need, and always had the right words...but Stephen..I don't know what to say to you. I think (and hope) you know that I'm here for you, big buddy, and I think you know how much I care, so I don't really need to say it although I wish I could. I want to chat but only when you want to chat...you know my email...and you know I am all ears. Remember, I know what loss is like, as I am sure many others do, but I need to tell you that it isnt always as hard as when it first happens. You go through shock...disbeilf...anger...and then pure sadness. But a friend once told me something about greif that I must tell you...think of your greif as if its a wound on your arm. When you first create the wound, the pain is great and the sore...open and pouring. And if feels as though the pain will never heal. But it does. The wound will scab. Scar.The sad truth is, it will always be there, just won't always be as bad. It will be like a rollar coaster: Ther's bumps and turns and curves along the start, but things then will smooth out...only to result in another loop. And this continues and will continue throughout your life, but Stephen, there is light at the end of a tunnel.

Know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, and also know I am here when you want me, need me, whenever...24/7. God Bless you, hunn.

*hugz*

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