My parents got divorced when I was really young, and so I have been fine with it and everything. The only problem is that I have never once v* at my dad's house and like 5 times at my mum's. My stupid phobia brain takes over and convinces myself that I will never get sick at my dad's house even though I know its so stupid. Maybe because I dont have the horrible memories there I am more comfortable? So when someone in my family gets sick, I always want to go to my dad's to get away from it and it really offends my mum as she takes it to heart, when really I have a much better relationship with her and it is entirely about my phobia! I tried to tell her, but she wouldn't listen. Im starting to think saying nothing and the anxiety is a better option now. Any advice? x