We've been together for over a year now and he knew I was an emet before we got together. At first he was really supportive and even bought me a box of chocolates when he got drunk and v* when I was upstairs!
But for some reason recently he's been getting really fed up with me to the extent where he stopped talking to me and I had to apologize for getting scared when he said he'd v* in the morning (when I'd spent the whole day with him not realising!!). I told him that when I get scared, all I need is for someone to give me a hug and to tell me that I'm not going to v*, yet he replied with 'I'll do my best to help Emily, but it's getting harder!'
He doesn't seem to see that I am getting better, slowly but steadily, so I decided to show him. The next time we went out to the pub, the morning after he said he felt sick so I should go home, but I said no, if you need to v* then just give me plenty of warning but do it and I will try my hardest to stay calm. I thought, I know that I can't catch a hangover so it'd be the perfect opportunity to show him that I can do it, yet he refused and just said he can't v* while I'm there because it's 'not worth the headache.'
So I tried again the other day when we were in a similar situation and practically pleaded with him to let himself v* so that I could prove to him I can do it and promised that I wouldn't panic, but he refused again!!
How can I prove to him that my emet isn't going to make things harder if he won't let me?!