Had my appointment with the "specialist"

[kmarie]

So..you may recal i ahd soem sexual disfunction issues and was refered to a specialist.


I went yesterday..boy oh boy..


So..i went in and filled out the paper work..peed in the cup..the nurse took me backa nd weighed me and got my history and stuff..she asked if I had any physical or mental conditions...so i said "well i do suffer from an extreme phobia of vomit" to which she replies...oh wow...your lucky you had an afternoon appoinment..this morning of of our nurses was sick and throwing up all over the place..she had to go home...OMG helloooooo..she clearly doesnt understand the word PHOBIA?


HA..so she sent me back to the waiting room to wait for the Dr. Momw as there and she calmed me down..lol...


so then i get taken into the coldest most steril exam room..not even a clock on the wall...sitting there...naked from the waste down 9with a little lap towl wrapped around me)...waiting and waiting.


Finaly the Dr. came in..shes not much older then me...but such an awesome person..she made me feel SOOO comfortable..and she was SOOO gentle...


the conclusion? No infections or diseases..no real "medical" condition...i have a very inflamed and irritated muscle..but it was caused my my emotional/mental issues...i tense up to much and irritate it..


so...i have to relax...and work through my problems with myself and my husband (who I am still seperated from). she did mention the ity bitty possibility of my and my husband not being physically compatable any more...and god that scares me....she said for all you know you could find another partnet and be just fine...what if thats true???


another thing..in my post about my seperation i mentioned needing closure from an old relationship...well..boy has that gotten to be a storey...come to find out he told one of my family members he felt horribly bad for the way he treated me..he just didnt see it going anywhere and didnt go about ending it in the proper way...which is nice to know..that he feels like an ass..


but theres more...he has asked my cousin out...see her parents introduced us...he is liek their son....he ahs been in iraq for a year and they have been pen pasl..and now are haning out..and he just asked her on a date!!! We have tehse big family dinenrs each week...and he may come to one with her...how frickin odd is that going to be??????? I told her to go for it..hes a great guy..but if he hurts her ill hunt him down..i also assured her i wouldnt make it uncomfortable if he comes..if be very friendly.


anywho...thats my confusing life...

[mitch4133]

He asked your cousin out? I don't think that is appropiate. I would never be Ok with an ex going out with one of my family members. If you ask me he has a lot of balls doing so.


I am glad your appoitment went well, and it must be a relief to know there is nothing medicaly wrong. You just need to try and relax. I wish you the best.

[ontariogirl]

Glad that your appointment went ok. What a relief! This guy really likes to keep it in the family!!

[Galadriel]

Hey Kmarie!


I am so glad that it went good! That is great that she was so nice to you, and I am very glad that it turned out to be just stressing. Now you can just take a deep breath and be glad thats over! Hmm this guy sounds odd to me, I am suspicious some about him going after your cousin. Don't have contact with him, because you dont want to make your husband think "oh she just wants to see this guy". Remember you are working it out with your husband, and its best to stay focused on him. I am very happy things "down there" are okay!