Ok this is phobia related I promise lol. Well I have a BIG fear of erm docs and such in general, and well one thing I really hate, is when your obviously scared, and they act like your being such a baby for it. I mean okay if Im scared outta my mind, do you think that saying "oh dont be such a baby" will suddenly make me snap out of it and be a-ok? I just find it real demeaning. I guess Im ranting here some, but I just cant stand that. I remember being at the dentist, and hes comin at me with this huge novicane needle, and well I get scared and push his hand away, and he says "on come on, theres 5 year olds who can handle this." I mean ok just because Im older does that mean that suddenly Im not allowed to be afraid anymore or something? Im sorry but that really irritated me and made me feel bad. I bet that 5 year old doesnt have phobias, and in that case its VERY wrong and unfair to compare me to that 5year old. GRRR! Sorry, I just think itsvery mean and demeaning to do that to someone.