Stress & Nausea WHAT A COMBO/ OT

[matmysunshine]

ok so I am stressing like u can not beleive, in my house I handle all the bills, so I was very exctited when we closed on our Townhome and they told me i could Refinance right away.. I could taste the happiness, of having a big majority of my bills paid off. SOOOO I waited about 4 months and started the Refi Process, and I just found out that I can not refinance for the full amount... I am sooo bummed, I had plans on what I was going to do, and all. My son turns 1 in 2 weeks, and we were going to get him a bedroom set, and now that is NOT going to happen..I told My husband from the start that we can not afford to get this home, but to make him happy we did it, and now I am soo angry, I wanted to give my son what I did not have, and its like I can not, and so I am STRESSING witch in turn causes some unhappiness to my tummy, and I am now NAUSEA... I just needed to vent, sorry.. I am not asking for a pitty party, I just had to yell how angry I am.. Christy

[tink]

Hey Chrsty,

I am so sorry that your refi didn't work out the way you planned it. Please try not to get yourself too worked up when there is not much you can do about it for now, you know the money for his bedroom set will come to you in due time. Might I make a suggestion? Maybe you can ge the least expensive piece of the set. I bet it would make you feel a little bit better? Or maybe even a toybox or something that matches it? It might make your tummy happier as well.

Take Care,
--Kim

[snowangel]

It's like a vicious circle. Naseua = panic and panic= naseua.
its the story of my life.
I suggest deep breathing and a nice hot bath with green tea.