I cannot believe this. MAJOR UPDATE**

[sunshine16]

Dear fellow Emets,


Due to a recent fight with close friends, all things including MSN,
sites I belonged to, etc. I am no longer able to access due to them
finding out and changing my passwords. There is no way that I can
regain control of these things. I was lucky enough to quickly seize
this site
untouched and am about to change the password, but please, if you talk
to my old email address, [email protected], please, please do
not have faith in it. It is not me, my ex best friends who have decided
to ruin me.


I am so pissed right now, I could die. They say there are 5 of them
against me and are plotting and scheming. I am MSN-less, they are in
control, and who knows what they could have said to other contacts
about me! I cannot believe they did this. They are making my life
miserable, what the hell do I do. I am dreading tomorrow, who knows
what people will say or do to me? Worse, what have they told others?
Please understand, I need you guys right now..friendship fights bite.


A very angry, sad, depressed, anxious,


Laura</font>


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[wing]

*Hugs* Omg. That's horrible. I would feel bad too but really look on the bright side. We're here for you. I hope they realize how mean they're being. If they do talk dont let it get to you. Keep your head up high. They just want to make you feel bad. how could they do that to you..Isnt there someone on your side? sorry i'm terrible at these things, just let you know i'm here.


[If my rambling there did not make sense..sorry! Terrible at advice..&gt;&lt;]Edited by: wing

[madisonsmom]

That is terrible. You know people must be really bored to do that![img]smileys/smilies_07.gif[/img]

[jesskali]

Sorry you are having to go through this. That sounds like a very childish and immature thing for them to do!

Jess

[ontariogirl]

Wow some people are so bored with their own lives they feel they have to invade others and try to ruin them. I am so sorry this is going with you Laura. Keep your head up high, these people are a bunch of crackers!!

[2jo2]

That's terrible that they feel they need to do that to you. And remember that you are always in control of you. I hope they come to their senses.

[bethany]

that is sooo mean! are they girls? they can be so horrible. I'm so sorry. dont let them get you down let them know what they did was wrong but dont show them you're hurt b/c that's what they want to do. i hope someone can stop them in this situation. how old are they? can your parents call their parents? b/c that's just WRONG.
-megan

[SimplyMe]

Good grief! Talk about immature! I'm sorry you are going thru this but I'm glad you got to this site before they did. That's pretty pathetic on their part. I hope things clear up for you soon.

[Babydoll]

wow, these girls really need to grow up. like really! sound like they never graduated from elementary school.( i know you dont graduate, but u get my point)


you know its funny, someone tried to add me to their msn list from that adress and I blocked it right away ( which I never do, unless somethign bad has been said). I must be pyschic or something.


can't you change your password for your msn? I guess if they know it and have changed it themselves then you're out of luck.


but really, this is kindergarden acting. I mean I'm only 22 and if someone did this to me I'd never speak to them again, their not worth your time.

[r311dude]

If you need someone to knock some heads, I'm your person!

[aguerra29]

I am so sorry that happened to you. I know how bad something like that can hurt. THroughout my life I have had "so-called" friends do hateful hurtful things to me. But I always got through it. There was a time when everyone in the school was against me except for 3 people. That was in elementary school though. Just don't let these "people" know that you are the least bit upset by this. Just go on as though nothing happened. I know that is easier said then done. Just put on a good face and if you need to, you can cry when you get home. "This too shall pass"

[sunshine16]

Thanks for the replies guys.



Well guess what...I didn't go to school today. I am so nausea and have
horrid diarreah. And I just feel blah. But I know why...its because of
all the upset over them. Now they've not only upset me emotionally, but
made me sick physically.



I know exactly who (and have evidence to prove it) did this to me.
Their names are Jill, Christine and Megan...all my age, all used to be
my friends. However, Jill is mostly at fault. We were neighbours, best
friends all our lives, etc. Until lately when she's started hanging out
with the wrong and very mean crowd. She was the one who I trusted with
my emet secret, and now she can go and back stab me like this and think
its okay. Well, its not. They haven't admitted it is them (yet) but I
eagerly await that time. It's not just me who these 3 are mean to. They
call a fellow friend 'Mario' because she has a fine shadowed moustache
(so what?!) They even make mock moustaches and uni-brows to imitate
her. They tell other friends who are not as wealthy as they are to go
to Tim Hortons and pick through the garbage...maybe then they will find
some food. They tell others with poor fashion sense to live in Value
Village...then they can have the luxury of lice from old hats. They
call others 'sluts', 'B*tches', 'Fat', 'Gay', etc. etc. Without
thinking twice. 'I hate you' is now as commonly said to me from then as
often as a husband and wife say 'I love you'. And what did I do to
deserve this? Nothing. Nothing, nothing nothing.



But I have people who are good to me. I.E. Heather. She is one of the
few that the 3 don't treat badly, yet one of my closest friends. When
she found out what they were doing to me, boy did she give them a piece
of her mind! As with other friends as well. At least I know I can count
on them.



As far as the email account goes, they will not surrender yet. However,
I have sent an email requesting my password to be retreived from
Hotmail Staff. I don't know what my plan of action is as far as they</span> go, but, we will give it time.



Anyways, what a mess. I'm sorry for this huge vent but blah!! Grrr to
them. No matter how much I hated someone I would never treat them like
dirt. But oh well. Anywho, nature's calling, gotta run,

Ciao,

*laura*</font>

[redapple]

Laura,</span><br style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;">
I'm so angry
they are doing this to you. It's so, so hard growing up when
people are still learning how to treat others. These girls have a
lot of growing up to do. I dont' even know what to say, i'm so
upset about this. But try not to let it upset you to an extreme,
because that's exactly what they want. Remember that. Stay
strong. There will come a time in your life when you have the
blessing of true friends. Unfortunately, it's normally not when
you're in school and still surrounded by such immaturity. I'm
glad you have Heather. Hang in there, girly.



All the best[img]smileys/smilies_46.gif[/img]

Beth

</span>

[sunshine16]

Thanks [img]smileys/smilies_01.gif[/img]



Well I didn't go to school today, diarreah still happening [img]smileys/smilies_06.gif[/img]



I received an email from Microsoft Support team requesting information
so that I will recieve the password of whatever they changed that to.
Hopefully I will regain control of it soon. Keep your fingers crossed! [img]smileys/smilies_29.gif[/img]



And your right, these girls are quite immature. They seem to be mean
for the fun of it, and get pleasure about ruining other people. I just
hope it comes back to bite them in the buttocks.[img]smileys/smilies_07.gif[/img]



It does seem that the diarreah flu-ish thingy is going around though.
Finally this morning I took an Immoudium (sp?) to slow things down.
We'll see. I'm kinda sick of watching soap operas [img]smileys/smilies_11.gif[/img]



Anyways, thanks for all your replies, glad to see I didn't just over react towards them.

[img]smileys/smilies_46.gif[/img]
*Laura*</font>


Edited by: sunshine16

[wing]

I'd hate to have friends like that..anyway How're you feeling now? Hope you get your password!

[terified girl]

You didn't overreact at all, those girls are cruel and as you said deserve punishment back.


I hope you start feeling better soon too.


Its the weekend now so maybe you're body will relax and come back to normal, if there's anything we can do, please let us know.


Sonia

[sunshine16]

Thanks guys...

Well I think a lot of what I was feeling was a reaction to anxiety. I
still feel blah but my close friends invited me out to the movies today
and I think I might just go. Anyone seen Miss Congenality 2? Any v*
scenes?

And thanks alot for your replies, guys, they mean alot

*hugz*

Laura</font>

[sunshine16]

NEWSFLASH!</font>

I LOVE THE MICROSOFT TECH SUPPORT PEOPLE!</font>

I have regained control of my [email protected] account.</font>

Never fear, Laura's here!</font>

Changed all passwords and secret questions so they don't know anything anymore.

I cannot wait until they come online! hahaha that should be an interesting surprise.

God these people are immature...they had created a new contact group labeled boys, and stuck me under it.

Phh...

Anyways, no more funny stuff. THANK GOD!

But I did learn something, although the hard way.

I can't trust them.

At all.

Anymore.



A very satisfied

Laura.[img]smileys/smilies_39.gif[/img]

[emily7]

good for you





what a bunch of jerks

[wing]

That's great Laura~!

[sunshine16]

what a bunch of jerks

Thats a complete understatement.</font>

Edited by: sunshine16

[sunshine16]

Okay, so I just had a conversation over MSN with the two little mean
queens, Christine and Megan. The first is with Christine (I think you
can figure out who she is) and then the next is with Megan.

CHRISTINE:



ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

goodmorning

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

uh huh

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

i guess

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

how are you?

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

that doesnt matter

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

oo...AND HOW ARE U?

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

im good thanks

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

whatcha up to?

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

n/a

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:



ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

okay then..

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

yaa

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

what's new?

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

Ping? [request]

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

Pong! [01sec]

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

yes i have MSN PLUS

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

cool

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

ya isnt it

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

tis

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

so who do u honestly think hacked?

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

honestly?

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

yes

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

tis what i said

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

you, jill and or megan

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You might have a good time, But we party harder -Smith says:

so for sure me and jill

ℓаuяа ● їм ваcк =) says:

uh huh..i believe so

·!¦[·сняіѕтіиє·]¦!· Im the PARTY STARTER, You

[sunshine16]

So..that's them for you. And apparently I did a whole lot of stuff that
strangly I don't recall doing (i.e. calling Jill's parents)

What do you suggest I do from here?

And..I HATE THEM!

[sillygirl]

I can't believe how childish they are! Just ignore them. Don't talk to them anymore because it just gives them what they want - seeing you upset. If you do talk to them, do not let them know it bothers you. Don't let it bother you. So what if a couple of people know you take prozac? At least you are smart enough to get help for your problems.


I remember back in 8th grade my best friend and my boyfried stabbed me in the back - first I saw them out together and then I intercepted a note in which my "best friend" told my boyfriend to break up with me so they could go out. Then, my best friend went out for the cheerleading squad for high school the next year and I didn't. She told me if I wasn't a cheerleader, she couldn't talk to me anymore. I said fine, and never spoke to her again.


A year or two later, while I was hanging out with new friends she came crawling back to me because the cheerleader life wasn't all she thought it would be. Everyone knew she was a snob. I wasn't rude, but I refused to be firends again. The kicker came when I started dating a guy she liked - and now I am married to him!


The point of my rambling is that they are going to suffer in the long run and not you. They may think they are "cool" now, but the majority of people are not stupid. They will see these girls for who they are, even if it takes a while. You just have to hang in there, keep your head up and do not stoop to their level. Things always have a way of working out.

[r311dude]

That's one thing I don't miss from high school.

[wing]

oh my gosh I hope since they are being so mean they get a taste of their own medicince. What comes around goes around. I'm so sorry that's happening to you. Apparently I dont have those problems with friends because i just basically get walked all over on ehehe.. Anyway, I really dont know what advice i should give except to wait it out. Something will get them back for doing that to you. They should re-read that conversation themselves and see how childish they sound.

[confused]

hey, i know i'm kinda late in posting this, but i havent been on in a few days.


I would know instantly if someone had hacked into your account because you don't have a mean bone in your body, so if nasty things were said under your name, i would know it couldn't be you! I am so sorry that you are going through this. I know it's HARD, I went through stuff like that when I was in High school. The only thing i can think to do is entirely ignore them. talking to them only eggs them on. Block their screen names, don't talk to them in school, act like it doesn't bother you. Eventually they'll get bored (hopefully) and find another victim. **hugs** it'll get better!


Danielle

[kentuckygalrk]

Ya know what Laura... I used to have manyso called "friends" that treated me like absolute crap. I always wanted to have lots of "friends" and be a "popular" person. I wanted to be as "lucky" as I saw the in-crowd as being...


then... I grew up. I started to realize what kinds of "friends" they really were and I realized that they wereEXACTLY what I did NOTneed in my life. I decided that from then on out I would not allow myself to be treated like crap.


I now go by the saying "I would rather die knowing that I had ONE TRUE friend in life then to die knowing I had 500 "aquaintances" who really didn't care about me at all." ONE true friend in life is all you really need...


Don't worry about those girls... they aren't worth a thing! Anybody would be lucky to have you as a friend... always remember that!! Only change the things in life that you know you need to change... NEVER stop being who you truly are in your heart just because you care about what others think of you!


Bless you!


~Rachel

[2jo2]

it's so cliche, but people like that are so jealous of the people they are mean to because they see something in that person (you) that they know they can never be themselves. i agree with everyone else, try and ignore them. they thrive on every word you say.... esp. when it's written, i'd be really careful. they find it not a problem whatsoever to hack into someone's email account and spread lies, they would not hesitate to change your words around, and editing to use your words against you. they feel a power by being mean to you and that is just so incredibly sad. people who would intentionally make someone feel poorly about themselvesare so immature. you're lucky you don't have them as friends anymore. i know it hurts because you can't be there to defend yourself, but you're doing well and holding your own against them! hang in there!!

[fendergirl2020]

Those bitches definately sound like the stereotypical popular girl group in high school you see in films. Much as I would be tempted to give them a slap, the best thing to do is ignore them. What about going to a teacher to discuss it?


xx