Pregnancy scare... Again. 18+ only

[WoofGirl]

I feel so completely stupid. I'm always so freaked out about getting pregnant, so me and my husband-to-be decided to wait until I was ready. Weeeeell that didn't exactly happen. We used a condom, but he didn't withdrawal right away and kept going for like 30 seconds. My periods are super irregular, but I was due to get it anywhere between today and 3 days from now. I feel extremely bloated and N*, with slight on and off cramps. I've been so worried I haven't been sleeping. I'm so sorry I have to come to you guys all the time, but you are really the only people I trust. If I am, how will I ever deal with morning sickness? Or labor for that matter! I want kids so desperately too. Curse this damn emet!

[wiscomommy]

Woof, relax and try to take a deep breath. You are NOT stupid! If God feels pregnancy was meant to happen, it will. If not, it won't. Try to go about your "normal" routine, and wait a day or two and see if you get your period. Worrying and fretting can prolong or delay menstrual cycles too, so it's kind of a Catch-22. Emet and pregnancy are a fact of life for many, many women, and you don't have to go through any of that alone. Children are a blessing! Even if you were pregnant at this time, there is no saying that morning sickness will be a part of your pregnancy. Not every woman vomits during labor. Things will be okay. Trust your body, trust God (oops, I guess I assume you believe in Him - hey, if you don't, no big deal). Everything will be okay!

[jparsons93]

If you used a condom and it didn't break odlr fall off you should be fine. Maybe you should consider taking an oral contraceptive?

[staystrongxx]

You do not need to withdraw when using a condom hun... The semen goes inside the condom..and as long as the condom doesn't rip, it's all good. I know condoms aren't 100%, but most pregnancies with condoms are because of user failure. As long as he knows how to use a condom, you should be fine.

[WoofGirl]

Thank you guys. I did end up getting my period. Unfortunately, my "soon to be" bounced and won't talk to me so he doesn't know that I'm not. YES! I do believe. I have never prayed so hard in my life. But I also feel guilty because I know it was "wrong". All of you guys on here are seriously the best. I wish I could give you ALL hugs!