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    Default Someone help me please:"(

    If anyone has read my latest posts they all seems to be revolved around my breakup, but it really is taking a toll on me as you can tell. I never usually felt the horrible need to go on here and post, but I find myself needing the help me and more and I have nobody else to turn to and it scares me...I went to Michigan to visit my friends and some family and mostly I got away to try and get away from my ex and his drama and rumors he was starting about me (sounds childish I know because it is) so I just needed to get away..... And I did it was so great I didn't feel the intense need to text him, call him or try to get his attention u think because I knew he wasn't around or close to me. (I live in AZ across the country) I felt a sense of peace even when coming back to AZ but then when I got back the feelings came straight rushing back to me again and I don't know why or how it's been THREE months since we broke up and I shouldn't want him anymore but I do and it honestly makes me stomach cwiver when I think about him. I have felt sick to my stomach...now the real question that ties this all together is am I feeling sick because I actually am sick or because of my ex....I'm so scared either way and I'm almost depressed again because I feel so sad and sick I'm not with him and he is so happy....why can't I be happy again.. I want to think of myself as the optimistic girl that can rise above anything and like it doesn't phase me but inside it kills me still.... Why can't I just get over it..:/ I can't watch myself feel this way anymore I need to stop dreading and get on with my life like he allegedly has.. But how do I do that when all my energy is focused on thinking about him... Then directly relating to my relapse of this fear.. I'm sorry for this being so long.. When I keep typing it makes me forget about my stomach... Ok I'm done and if anyone can give me advice, words of encouragement or anything feel free. Thank you

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Jul 2010
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    Default Re: Someone help me please:"(

    *hugs* I have had my fair share of breakups and they suck. I can tell you though, I am now engaged to a wonderful man who cares for me, doesn't bring drama into our relationship, and is all around fantastic. There are reasons why these relationships haven't worked out - there's someone better for you out there. I really suggest the book, "It's Called A Break-Up Because it's Broken". Wonderful book!

  3. #3

    Default Re: Someone help me please:"(

    Thank you so much for the support truly means a lot to me. I'm a little better tonight. I think I struggle with nights the most because I used to sleep at his house every single night for a year. Now that I'm alone in my own room with myself it's terrifying especially when I don't feel good! (Which emets don't feel good a lot of the time)

 

 

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