ok sooooo, I haven't slept w my poor bf since Monday and then he was v* on wed and hasn't gotten so much as a hug from me since. I am going to have to have surgery for the removal of a bunch of cancer cells very soon and I have still not been to his apt. I am going to go there on Tuesday after class and I really wana kiss him and snuggle and you know, other stuff. after surgery I will be off limits from 4-6 weeks. he was still having d* yesterday. is Tuesday safe for sex? help!