I need your advice!

[emmeh]

Hello everyone. I am new to this site, i honestly had no idea that this was an actual common phobia. I have felt alone for so many years! Well a little background, I developed my extreme fear of v* when I was around 11 years old. When I was 11 I was also diagnosed with anxiety disorder, panic disorder, and depression. I missed most of 5th grade because I was home everyday thinking I was going to v*. Throughout high school things got better and better and when I went to my first year of college in 2011 it all started up again. I am now 22 years old and dealing with the phobia and anxiety like never before. Some days I don't feel like I can continue on but i keep on pushing through. I almost gave up earlier this year when I met the most amazing man and we ended up dating right away, true love at first sight. He is pretty comforting about things but doesn't quite understand.

So heres my question. This afternoon around 1PM he came to my house and picked me up. We did some chores, sat and relaxed, and then he gave me a ride back 70 miles to my dorm. Of course there was quite a bit of kissing taking place today as well. Well around 9:30 tonight he texted me saying he thinks hes getting the flu as he has stomach cramps and d*. About 11PM, 15 minutes ago he texted me saying he is v*. I have horrible anxiety about it and don't know what to do!
Thanks in advance!

[beargoddess]

i'm not totally sure because i'm not a doctor, but i think that as long as he hasn't directly v* on you, or didn't wash his hands after going to the restroom and touched something you ate after it started happening, you shouldn't have it. if you start feeling nauseous for any reason whatsoever (because i know in these situations i get nauseous when i get anxious) i highly suggest taking emetrol, that is a very nice anti-nausea meadication that works for me and my family. my sister had a dreadful hangover and couldn't keep much down until she took some. best of luck!!

[DogLover8]

I would be slightly concerned - if there was heavy kissing (especially with tongue :P) then I would take all preemptive measures. If he has a sv, then I would be taking lots of immune system boosters (I always take Vitamin C and oregano oil (sounds weird, but it really works), and avoid kissing for a few days.

Like beargoddess said, I am not a doctor, so this is just a personal opinion and what has worked for me in the past. Best of luck!

Blessings,
DogLover8