I know this is completely off topic, and most of you may not even know what to say, but right now, you are the people I trust the most.
My son, Isaac, is 4 1/2 years old. About 6 months ago, he discovered "tickling his body", if you get my meaning. At first, I was a little horrified, then realized that it was normal. He always did his "thing" in his bedromm, by himself, usually with a stuffed animal. I always knew when "it" was going on b/c he would disappear into his room for a while and be quiet. Quiet is not a common trait with him.
Well, now this is going on 3 or 4 times a day. And, (this is the worst part), he told me the other day he had wanted to "tickle" another little girls body that he was playing with. I totally freaked out and told him that he wasn't allowed to touch other peoples bodies. And that noone else is allowed to touch him, unless it was me or dad cleaning his bum.
My questions/concerns are this....Is this normal? How much is too much, I mean he's only 4!? Am I raising a sexual predator? Where could he have got this from? (he has never been exposed to anything sexual, and he says noone has ever touched him).
Please give any advice you can. I am totally freaking out, and thining what a horrible parent I am!
Crystal