why does this happen?

[nickr8]

hey everyone i dont want to distrub anyone or anything but im just curious and ill try and edit it as much as i can...when ever me and a girl are doing "something" my stomach starts to bother me really bad and it usually dosnt matter what it is. and lately it has been interfering with me doing stuff with another girl i get really nervous that something bad is going to happen and my stomach will make weird noises...does this happen 2 anyone else or does anyone know how to make this go away thanks

[peachykeen]

I used to date a guy, and when we'd fool around he'd get nervous and
at "that" moment (kwim?) he'd almost pass out! I think it almost had
something to do with not wanting to lose control. You could tie that to
emet almost -- part of my fear about v* is that I'm not in control.
Could that be the case with you?

[SimplyMe]

I've felt sick during "things" before (usually from earlier on) but I can't say I completely relate. Could you be nervous? Maybe so nervous worrying that your stomach will act up that it really does act up? Does the girl(s) know about emet? Maybe if you talk to her about it and if she is understanding (which if she's not you don't want to be messin' w/ her anyhow) that in itself might even help. Sorry if this isn't much help but I hope it helps at least a little.


I didn't think of the control thing! that's a good point!Edited by: SimplyMe

[purpleteacher]

Sometimes those acts can cause nausea or discomfort, at least from my own personal exerperiences and from what I have been told. Another part of it could be nerves, of which you will have to consciously decide to take control over before your stomach will stop bothering you.


My nerves either go to my head or my stomach. Sometimes I can control it and it goes to my head, which then lands me in bed with a bad migraine - but that sure beats being in the bathroom all night!

[gubba]

I think that it is a lot of stress and messing around can be stressful if you think about it too much. I know that until I met my husband and was totally comfortable with every single thing about nakedness, bathroom stuff etc., I was always feeling a little yucky during those times. I know it seems weird, but if you aren't totally comfortable, it can make things even worse.

[nickr8]

thanks for your help the control thing could be one part of it and i definently think nerves are a big part of it...sometimes i gotta throw on an episode of dragon ball z to calm me down lol hey it works!