need to vent

[hollyjean]

Last night i went to a party for new years eve and it was horrible, i really need to vent because im freaking out so much, im sorry if its too long.


The party was at my bf workmates house. He told me it was a proper party so i went and bought a very expensive dress. His mates gf are all really nasty to me and put me down so i wanted to look really nice for my bf. We turn up and everyone is in jeans sitting playing poka. The girls laughed at me for being overdressed


I had to drive back to my house to get something and the guy whos house it is gf came with me. On the way back she told me how she and her bf both had sv the day before. She said Simon, her bf had it and she got it the next day. I asked my bf why he didnt tell me this and he said that his mate told him he was ill from a hangover. Kirsty, his gf said she felt sick for 3 hours so made herself v* then felt ok after that. Im really hoping it wasnt a sv that made them ill, i was eating doritos from a bowl that they used also! I only had a few but thier hands could have been all over the ones i ate! I am completely freaking out that i am exposed now I asked Kirsty if thier little girl who is about 18 months had been ill and she said no but shes probably going to get it anyway. She really didnt care that she could have made her baby sick!


I was already freaking out so then they decided to play drinking games. They did one where there are 6 glasses, some have triple shots on, one is water, one beer etc and the number you roll is the one you have to drink. They were making this nasty drinks that were all curdled and one guy nearly threw up in his hands, i was in a real panic. I told my boyfreind he could not join it because they were using the same 6 glasses and i think hes annoyed at me now, i didnt want to upset him but i didnt want him to get sick! A short while after one girl ran upstaires and was v* very loudly and at that point id had enough so my bf and i left.


Im so scared now that my bf and i are going to get sick To maike matters worse my parents are at each other throats at the moment and im stuck in the middle. I cant take anymore of this :'(

[jenneth]

woah. that sounds awful! i wouldn't have coped so well in the situation, trut me you did well to stay for as long as you did... i can't say you wont get what they had, but you were prtty careful, and i guess theres nothing you can do now if you have caught it. by the way, (no offence meant here) i think your bf' mates sound horrible! hope you're ok, and happy new yr!!

jen

[hollyjean]

His mates are actually nice, its thier gf that are horrible. Im so scared that im going to get sick

[jenneth]

oh ok soz. well, how many times have you been scared you're gonna be sick? and how many times has it actually happened? we all need our peck of dirt, and MAYBE your body can cope this time. try to look on the bright side, i know how you feel though, its easy for me to be all positive and reassuring now. i guess you should just try to get on with your life, and if you're sick, then you won't have wasted a whole day worrying about it, and if you're not (which i expect will be the case) then you can pat yourself on the back

jen

[SimplyMe]

Good grief! What a bunch of ... well I won't go there. I'm so sorry you went thru all of this. I don't think they had a sv if she had to make herself v* and it only happened once and she felt better she had probably eaten something that didn't settle right and your b/f was probably right that her b/f was hungover is all. People tend to call any episode of v* either a sv or food poisoning. Besides if it were a sv the incubation time for this one seems to be a day your b/f and/or you would be sick by now. Try to hang in there and not let it ruin your new years (I know easier said)

[hollyjean]

thank you so much, hearing that makes me feel so much better! I hate this emet, i feel so sick right now but im making myself feel sick through worry!