Drunk neighbor in the dorm

[redastrid]

My across the hall neighbor is super drunk and v* in the trash can. I didn't see it, but I smelled it....and I didn't care. I was a little nervous and I'm still on edge, and I probably wouldn't have enjoyed seeing or hearing it, but I didn't panic. I chatted with her roommate and their boyfriends in the hall.

This sounds like a such a small step, but I'm sure all you emets know how big it really is. They were so sweet to her, and so apologetic to me, and no one is upset at her at all. I think a lot of us have a fear of a v* incident as being this huge panic??

My whole life I've been asking myself questions like, would I be scared of v* if I knew it was because someone was drunk? Would I still like someone after seeing them v*? Would I feel bad for them, or would I just feel panicked?

I'm proud of myself for handling it as well as I have so far. I'm scared but not panicking. I know that this time the fear will pass.

[gemini]

So proud of you! also, I had a similar experience. Heard someone v* at a college, just left the room, was okay!