Got a flat :D

[violet]

Me and my gf are just one step away from accepting a new flat


Im Absolutly utterly ****g myself about it at the moment,yes im excited yep im happy and over the moon ect, but,theres the 300oddmiles away from home lol, the job to get moeny and not to forget the huge clean before I move in...scared im gona go into the house and pick something up.


So yea, how did you all cope with moving out or moving away from home?


Im really happy just scared at the same time,suppose I just need some reasurance to this and well a little help as to how Im going to cope lol!!


thankx [img]smileys/smilies_04.gif[/img]

[Hale]

Awwww congratulations. I left home almost 2 years ago and could never go back to living with my parents.

[sassenacch]

congratulations!!!!


i bet you guys will be really happy there. it takes a wee bit of balancing to figure out what works & budget & so forth but it all comes in time. i bet you'll like living away from home - pretty soon that will be home! & your family will still be there for you, no matter where you live =)

[xroofusx]

Hey, awww thats really cool! im so happy for you!, i hope the move all goes well for you, and im really glad that you have found somewhere.

Ruth -x-

[violet]

Thank you so much for your replys =)


I do hope that I will be able to make it feel like home for me and my gf, shes fallen in love with the place lol,and were getting a puppy haha,how homely..


I no doubt will be stocked up on anti emetic's and everything else but I suppose I just need things around me to make me feeling comfortable,first things first,is tgetting the net in, need to keep you guys updated lol!


Hale,congrats btw xx

[suze]

Violet, you'll be fine. You may be some distance away from home, but it's not so far that you couldn't pop back for a weekend if you wanted. Try and be positive about this, it's a really exciting time for you. If you feel safe and secure with your gf, then it will be fine. Also, you've faced alot of issues at home, recently and in the past, so this is a great chance for you to put some of those behind you and start a new, happy chapter in your life.


I really think this will be a real turning point for you, it will give you independence and a sense of control over your life. That should boost your self-esteem and hopefully make many of your problems start to fade. And don't worry about catching anything from the flat, you won't! Scrub the bathroom first though eh? Just to put your mind at rest!


I hope your gf will allow you to settle in first before you feel the need to get a job, little steps yeah? And anyway, I'm sure she knows how much you like to clean, bake, do the gardening etc., so there will be plenty for you to do.


Finally, you will have the internet won't you? We're not gonna lose you are we?!!


Good luck, you know I'll be looking out for you.

[violet]

Suze, thank you so much for your reply hun =)


Well yes il try my hardest to get the net in there asap, just dont know how I could cope without you guys


I dont know about the job thing, think i will need to get a job asap as the deposit and the rent ect will just need to cotribute to it or Il no doubt feel as if im not doing enough.


thank you again hun =)

[sassenacch]

hey violet, i added you in LJ - my name is wide_blue_eyes

[Babydoll]

and here I thought you were excited about a flat tire. LOL.


funny how language is used in different countries...

[spilled_milk]

Yea me too..I read it a couple of times until I remembered that you were from the UK [img]smileys/smilies_04.gif[/img]


CONGRATULATIONS! That's an awesome step, and it should be fun.


<3 Anya--

[sweet]

Brilliant news Violet..... How exciting - it's great doing up your house and chosing paint and furnishings etc., well, I love it anyway!! You say you are moving 300 miles from home, are you moving out of Scotland and coming to join us here in sunny England????? [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]

[violet]

*LoL*,Sorry about the mix up with the flat thing..


Nope sweet not joining you lot yet,even though I would love to,Im going further up north as it is, =)


Thankx for your reply sweet,this is a furnished place but ive already got the steam cleaner on the shopping list haha


x