Okay guys I know you probably don't care but I have to talk/rant for a little bit and hope for advice.
Okay ever since last night (I know it hasn't been a long time but bare with me) I have totally spiraled into a pit of depression. I mean it's so bad I feel utterly hopeless. Just so you all know I'm bipolar and it's not unheard of for me to slip into a deep depression and then come out of it...but usually the depression only lasts like 12 hours and I'm fine...no such luck this time.
As maybe 2 or 3 of you know I've been battling my thoughts about an ex emotional tease for a few months now. I found her again she tells me she loves me and two weeks later she hates me and will have nothing to do with me. I thought I was doing fine, I mean the past few weeks I haven't even been thinking about her but then something went wrong. I watched the season finale of ER last night and it just hit me, what the hell am I going to do without this girl over the summer? I have NO one to talk to about ER...(Okay I know that sounds stupid but it's depressing me)
So I had an emergency meeting with my therapist today. This was the second time this week I saw her. Anyway she asked me about all of the people or things I have lost in my life that still make me sad. I listed about 12 things ranging from people, to animals, to even fantasies that have been crushed. See my problem with things is the fact that I don't get "SAD" over losses, I get angry. She told me that I need to take time and feel SAD this time, not angry, and just ride it out. I don't know what I'm going to do. Making that list just made me MORE upset, now I'm dragging up old wounds that I thought were healed. I know she was just trying to help me so I'm not blaming my therapist.
So now on top of missing this girl that I mentioned before, I miss my 2 cats, one of which is probably still alive and well somewhere but I'll never know because my parents gave him away to punish me. I miss my dog, I miss highschool (weird huh? most people hated highschool) and I'm even upset that I wasn't allowed to go to Prom my senior year. I know all this stuff seems petty and stupid to all of you but it means a lot to me. I know in the grand scheme of things my problems aren't that bad, but to me...right now...at this point in time...they are the worst.
I just can't stop thinking of things that I used to have, should have, or SHOULD'VE had. I really don't like this feeling...I don't feel like doing anything, I don't want to eat or sleep or read or write, or really do anything. I just want to vanish off the face of the earth...go somewhere and curl up and die. If anyone has any comforting words, or words of advice they would really help me right now.
Thanks for listening.
~Monica