
Originally Posted by
ladymoonlight
I posted a similar thread here a while ago on this.
I'm 20 weeks pregnant with my first and TERRIFIED of labour because of the v*! It scares me more than the thought of the pain to be honest and I'm seriously considering trying to get through without pain releif so that I'm not s* as I've heard Gas and Air and Pethidine can both make you s*.
I had quite bad n* for the first three months of my pregnancy*but never actually v* (Thank God).* But I do tend to feel n* when I am scared, stressed or in unfamiliar and frightening situations and I'm pretty sure my first labour will be all of these!!!* I would prefer to have had my baby at home or in a midwife led centre as they are less "scary" than hospitals (I can't stand hospital wards in case someone v* near me!), but I am not allowed as I have been advised to continue taking my prescription Seroxat (Paxil in the US) and I now find out that I will have to have a monitored delivery in a hospital ward (no birthing pool or natural methods) and the baby will need to be monitored after birth for signs of withdrawal! *This is really upsetting me!!!
Do you think having the baby in hospital will be the best thing - as there are antiemetics etc on hand?* They obviously wouldn't have any drugs in the borthing centre other than pain killers.* I really hate hospitals (to me there are just places full of v* and illness!) and am terrified of being in one to have my baby especially if I am s*!
When I try to bring this up with *"normal" mums or at my ante natal class they just laugh at me and say "Oh everyone v*s in labour, its normal, it helps you dilate and helps your waters break"/You won't notice it when you're in labour"/"you'll feel better after you do"/"You should just be glad you're having a baby" etc etc etc . . . I'm sorry but this is NOT what I want to hear!* All emets know that what we need is reassurance!!*
Is labour always accompanied by*N* and V*, even for those like me with*weak, nervous kinds of stomachs?!* Is it worse for*people who (like me) have had*N* in their early months?*