well im a young single mum of 4 beautiful girls... because of this phobia a lot of people say im not a good mum and cant look after my kids when they need me the most..... and I guess at times I feel that way too... buut then I remember that this phobia is real and it does not make me a bad person or mother... life has not always been easy for me and my kids, we have had our fair share of ups and downs but today I can honestly say that I am proud of who we all are and over all pretty happy with my life... im mostly a happy down to earth girl and my kids are much the same. we love spending time together in every way we can... well I guess that just about sums it up lol....