Right, there are people in their thirties and forties, and have been through their children's years etc. That's my point. Only recently has the internet become available to teach people what this phobia is. When was this website put up anyway? So people used to have no idea that others had the phobia. Now the internet provides them with news that there is other people and ways to be cured.
If a person is 18, or in their 20's, even late 20's to early thirties, there is plenty of time to do exposure therapy and work toward a cure, so that things will be easier for you when you have kids. I do believe that if people work at exposure therapy for several years, then they can be cured. I believe this because sage always posts about it, and she's just another human being with the phobia like everyone else here, not some kind of special goddess. So if she can go through exposure therapy and be cured, so can the rest of us.
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Originally Posted by lyndsayanne
in answer to japas post i have yoo say yes there are many treatments out ther and they work for some but not all i have tried most of the varioys treatments and yes they helped but i am in no means cured of my phobia.
As this sight points out there r many many people in there30-40 that r still dealing with their phobia and have been through their childrens years with this phobia
I agree that the maternal instinct does take over and make you able to deal with things better my youngest spent 9 weeks in hospital and at the time i dealt with it well
so there is hope for everyone