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View Poll Results: Can you Cuddle without it being sexual?

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    42 80.77%
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  1. #1
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    My friend, who is sexually attracted to me, thinks that she can't cuddle me without having sex with me, and I say that you can cuddle and not have it be sexual. I was just wondering what all of you guys think! Thanks!


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    ok well my reasoning is because of the abuse i have been through as a child.. i cant physically cuddle with someone it makes me nervous and it always leads to sex.. atleast in my past experiences and even now with my husband .. but ... i am working on this.. *sigh*
    \"Dance like no one is watching, Love like you will never be hurt, Sing like no one is listening, Live like heaven on earth!\" Mark Twain

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    For me, cuddling is a supreme waste of time. I am not a touchy-feely person, and would rather just have sex, and essentially will only cuddle as a pre-face to sex- otherwise, I can't be bothered.


    I had an ex who was into it- would totally just make me roll my eyes and get frustrated.


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    My ex and I never cuddled. It was always all about sex. I cuddle with my fiance, though. Whether we are on the couch watching a movie, in the kitchen cooking, or somewhere having sex- our hands are all over each other. So, I said that it depends on the person because I use to not want to cuddle, but I like to cuddle with Victor. Go figure.
    \"This too shall pass\"

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    I can cuddle without sex, I actually sometimes like to spend more time in my partners arms than sex, the comfort and emotional contact is very comforting.



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  6. #6
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    I think you can cuddle without it feeling sexual, liek when your upset and you need comforting or when your just cuddling watching a film or something.

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    With me I'd love to cuddle and just be close to whoever im with...but it almost always leads to things far more then just cuddling : (
    ~~~The One Winged Angel~~~

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    I agree with taner. My husband and I enjoy snuggling on the couch together. But, unless we're too tired, it usually leads to something else. But it's not necessarily a bad thing. [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]Edited by: HDogg

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