Hiya Jen,

Welcome to the site hun, and thank you so much for sharing your story. Took a lot of guts, and I know it cant have been easy.

PLease dont worry that youre gonna get any abuse or criticism here, we really are a nice bunsi of people!! I promise!! lol.

It must be so difficult for you to cope with being both. Like I said previoulsy though, I find it perfectly undersandable. Like you said, we ALL have an obsession with it, and there are a lot of people that get turned on by wierd things (by other peoples standards...scat etc). But I dont think theres anythiing wrong with having a fetish as long as noone is getting hurt. Each to their own!!

I really feel for you for the fact you feel you cant tell anyone or talk about it. Youre welcome to talk here about anything you need, and we will all try and help you the best we can.

Thanks again hun, and I think yure really brave!!

(((hugs)))
Ally xxx