I have a form of cancer called myeloma, for which there is no cure. Lots of chemo is required to stay alive for most of us, and I have really lucked out. I've managed to get through almost 4 years on treatments that caused no vomiting and very little nausea.
Yesterday I was supposed to check into the hospital and have a Neostar triple lumen catheter inserted and start some high doses of a chemo called Cytoxan. I actually made it to the hospital and had my blood drawn and started to walk to the department where the procedure was to be done. I got all the way to the door and then just started crying. I walked all the way back to the cancer clinic, thrust my paperwork at the receptionist and said, "I can't do this. Cancel everything. I don't care if I die!" She asked me if I wanted to talk to someone and I said, "No. I'm done. Cancel everything." Then I fled.
On the way home and for some hours after I got home, I realized that my decision REALLY could/would affect how much longer I lived, and I really had to think about whether the risk of vomiting should prevent me from getting any more treatment. I bounced back & forth between not caring and caring.
Because I was SO embarrassed by my outburst at the hospital, I couldn't answer the phone when my bone marrow transplant nurse coordinator called me. I asked a friend to call her to let her know what happened. I've told all my oncologists that I have emetophobia, so they knew. She said they didn't realize how serious it was, but that she had lined up a therapist to come in to my room after I was admitted.
She suggested I try again in a few weeks. I agree I should try. I really don't want to die sooner than I have to. She said they will meet me when I arrive, give me something to keep me calm and come with me for the procedure and stay with me until I feel ok about things. She said they have powerful antiemetics they can use. At home I have compazine & ativan, but I feel they don't work that well. I'm hoping for Aloxi and whatever else is new that they can give me.
I'm worried about delayed onset chemo induced nausea and vomiting. I'm even obsessing about what if I feel sick on the way home in the car? It's a 2+ hour drive.
As it is, 50% of us make it to 5 years and only 1% to 10 years. I can't hope to be in that 1% if I can't handle chemo. Has anyone had chemo with these new anti-emetics?
Thanks,
Beth