I can't acctuly belive my dad admitted he loves my brother more then me, i mean ok far enough he can if he wants, but to admit it to me. We had an argument yesterday and i said "Your the one who's always been violent towards everyone and needs help". He came and asked if i wanted any food from shopping so i asked for a few things and then he started huffing, so i said why are you huffing for and he says can't you pay for some of it, ok yes i can pay for it and will if i have to, just the fact he dosn't ask my brother who won't do anything to pay for it and he's 20 years old. Im trying so hard with my art at the moment, but he just keeps picking on me for every little thing i do. Im sorry but i don't get how he paid for my brothers drug addiction for 2 years, and im just recovering from an eating disorder and he's moaning about me asking for food.., so i asked him do you love james (my brother) more then me and he said yeah i do acctuly, so i don't know if he means it or not, but i havn't spoken to him since yesterday now.
I just don't get what im doing wrong really, does he just see me as some kind of easy target to pick on, its like when my brother was violent towards my parents when they wouldn't give him money for drugs, he used to beat them up and if i was there he would come and hurt me when he had hurt them. I used to have to jump in and try stop the arguments, i mean i didn't know what to do when my brother had a knife in his hand threating to kill my mum in front of me, a few times i made the mistake of standing in the way of my mum to end being punched in the face or picked up and thrown into the door, i just don't get why all this happend, i try and be kind to people and help people and then i get all this happen, i don't want to sound selfish and understand there's people in the world with bigger problems, but im just confused in what to do now, im so scared to move away, i have no idea how i will cope on my own, i can't even touch a remote without washing my hands anymore, sorry for the rant..[img]smileys/smilies_06.gif[/img][img]smileys/smilies_09.gif[/img].
Ruth x