Hi there!
I have a question.....has anyone ever explained to their children about their emetophobia? Last week my 9-year-old son was sent home from school with (horrors!!) a bad tummy ache and I kept quizzing the poor little guy about it. Every few minutes I would ask him if it was getting worse or if he felt n* and so forth. Finally he got mad yelled at me to stop asking him so many questions about it. I didn't even blame him for yelling--I was awful and totally out of line. Here the poor kid is doubled over in pain and instead of taking care of him I'm annoying and irritating him. He ended up being fine though--no v*ing or anything.
Still, I thought about explaining why I was acting so crazy just so he knew why, but wanted to get some insight first. Has anyone ever told their kids about this? At nine, is he too young to understand? What would I say???
With school in session I DREAD any call during the day from the school--when they called me last week as soon as I saw who it was on caller ID I flipped. I was shaking in the car on the way to his school. He's not one to v* very often--maybe once every couple years or so, but next time it happens I want him to know I love him more than anything and wish I could be better but I'm just terrified.
Thanks for reading--any help with this will be totally appreciated!!!