So ok.. my best freind is like a sister to me and i would DO anything for her..
and as some of you know she got pregnant and around that time her fiance left her too, and then a week later finds out that the pregnancy is tubal and she cant have it and has to have the surgery on her birthday.. out of all the days.. and he is all strung out on pills and drugs and on and on.. ok so her fiance.. is freinds with my husband.. so thats the sticky situation.
Cynthia (my bestfreind) had called Chris (ex fiance now) and let him know that something was up since she was having some cramping and only spotting,(PLUS hetold her he WANTED to have kids with her and didnt care if she got preggers when theywere together, sorry that was a rant)..anywaysso she tells him she is going to go to the gyno to find out whats up.. she tells him the night before what time the appt was...AAAANNND does he call the next day or even the next week for that matter to check up on her or to see what the results where?!?!? NO.. and my husband tried calling him a couple times but he never called back.. anyways to make a long story short i got fed up and sent him a kind of nasty .. but at the same time respectful e-mail.. but then things went bad he started saying bad things about my marriage and about me.. it got out of hand and now my husbands friend hates me pretty much and thinks im a b*tch.. but oh well.. i had to do it.. cuz cynthia wouldnt talk to him cuz it hurt her too much that he didnt seem to care..
anyways so by doing this .. i got cynthia to tell him and then he freaked out on her telling her it prolly isnt his and all this crap and then that he couldnt talk to her cuz "she lied" about it.. whatever.. its not like she can keep it nowanyways.. and she wanted to.. so it kills her!
so i have maybe made a freindship for my husband and him not soo comfortable but am i the "bad guy" for doing this? like he is making me out to be??????
sorry for the rant! ..
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