i need friend help

[_ruby]

a little bit before halloween, i told a kid in my class a story about
something a guy had said to my friend when they hooked up. i thought
it was true, becuase i swear thats what my friend told me happened.
soon enough the entire sschool new and she was mad. she saidi made
up rumors about her and her brother pushed me in school and called
me thing slike f****** bit**. then it was a little rocky with my other
best friend becuase we have always been a threesome. then she gave
a blow job to the boy i liked. and she knew i liked him a lot. now i feel
likei have no friends, and i have tried everything to make it up.


whos right, am i a bad friend? are they harsh? what.i need help.

[katiepool129]

Aww, that sucks What a horrid scenario to be put in. I'm sure if you are all strong friends you'll get through this, if not then you're prolly better off without. Hope everything works out ok for you.

Katie

[suze]

Your friends do sound a little on the cruel side. My advice though, is when one friend tells you something, unless you really trust the person, keep it to yourself - it's far, far safer that way.


I hope things sort themselves out soon.

[lianaismadchill]

1.) your friend sounds like a whore for giving the guy you like a blow job


2.) i agree w/ suze....next time keep itto yourself and dont tell anyone. all the drama that starts when someone tells somebody what a person said is completely ridiculous...im a sophmore in highschool (grade 10)...there are so many rumors that go around all the time in my school about things like that...Your friends really dont seem that nice, and honestly, they dont seem liek real friends.

[_ruby]

i just found out..my other friend just hooked up with another crush of
mine...this is awful


im a sophomore too.

[lianaismadchill]

oh really..lol thts cool. sophmore power!! lol


your friedn sounds absolutely disgusting, & it seems shes purposely doin this because of what happened.

[_ruby]

the thing was, the thing i said wasn't about her,just about the guy she
hooked up with and what he did during it.

i hate girl drama.

[spilled_milk]

yeah i'm a junior and honestly, by now i've learned to just keep it to yourself, unless you hate the person [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]. In high school anything you say to anyone willbe spread around to EVERYONE. Sorry your friend did that! That's a totally immature whoreish way to handle it.


<3 Anya--

[mee55]

omg how old are you guys. I didnt even know what a blow job was until i was 19. lol

[lianaismadchill]

lol. well besically most people in highschool, even probably junior highschool know what that is. lol.


what has this world come to?? lol

[_ruby]

haha well i know my town is very like mature in that area. people
start drinking and smoking in like fourth and fifth grade. and have
sex in like 6th grade.