Originally Posted by
hippychick
Recently though I find there is so much emphasis on not getting sick, on avoiding V* and not so much emphasis on beating the phobia that brought us all here. I am fighting this phobia every step and it's not easy. Especially at this time of year.
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I would urge all of you who post and talk of avoidance to really think about what you are doing by reinforcing this phobia. I understand that this fear makes you want to avoid V*, hell of course you do, but it can't be all there is. Only focusing on avoiding vomiting is not going to work because one day you may get sick and you may not have the tools to deal with that. I can't put all my energy into not being sick because if it happens I will fall to pieces. My energy needs to go into not being afraid of it so that when it happens it doesn't destroy whatever progress I have made. I understand though that not everyone is there yet.
I can't say how much I agree with you on all of this. THIS IS KEY!!
have a good time away, and don't worry too much. You deserve a break every now and then you'll be missed for as long as your away!
~*Jill*~ Teacher, Advanced BSc in Psychology
"You can unlock any door as long as you have the right key". Mrs. Brisby, Secret of Nimh