Quote Originally Posted by sage





Anyway, hon, don't worry about what BENEFIT you get from the phobia. That's just crap.

i dont think it is just crap....personally.. i realised that a part of my DID NOT want to let go of this phobia, because it was my safety net. in the same way, anorexic's dont wanna get rid of their disorder, because they dont wanna get fat.


the thing is, unless you WANT to get rid of any disorder, however much treatment u have, ur not gnna manage it.


thinking about the benefits of the phobia, and finding other ways to GET those benefits in ur life ( i.e. CONTROL) i think is a big part of getting cured.


just my opinion tho.


Jen xxxxxxxx