eeb, you'll be surprised how much everyone cares here. I think it will take a while for everyone to get IES going again. Or, if it goes down, do you know the other web site?
I can't imagine how hard it is to be 17 & feel the way you do. My parents had alcohol issues too, but not quite to that extent. If I remember one time there was a post about that. There's definitley a majority of people that had family alcohol issues here. I think there is a connection.
I liked what Punchbuggy said about you being in control of what happens to you. That's a scarey thought, but I think it is scarier to think you would have to rely on someone else to make you happy and safe. Instead, you need to find the inner trust & self worth & you'll be amazed how differently you'll feel. It's still a process with me & it takes lots and lots of practice. But, it is definitely possible to beat this phobia.
I could ramble on forever, so feel free to PM me anytime.
Susan
When you come to the edge of all the light you have known & are about to step out into the darkness, FAITH is knowing there will be something for you to stand on or you will be taught to fly. -Unknown