Hey, I am in the same boat. I think that even though it is an irrationial fear it doesn't mean its a bad fear, or one we should be ashamed of. Its very difficult to have emet and the people you love not be affected. But i have come to realize that everyone has their own s*** if i may say so, or their own baggage. Its a part of life, and those that really love us and care for us will always help us through when we need it. Even if they act angry at the time, they are still there day in and day out with you. That is something i am thankful for, something it think about when i feel so down and pathedic. It sounds like your parents are helpful and your husband tries to be, which is good.
This thing we deal with isn't fun, but i think together, we all can eventually over come this terrible fear.
Good luck!
Erin
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