Wow you have a lot on your plate right now! Glad youre getting into a therapist. As for cramps I had pretty bad ones too and .... you're gonna hate me for this .... birth control is the only thing that has helped to where I can still function. I was using a heating pad and OTC pain medication, tried cutting down caffiene and eat healthier around that time, tried exercising and eating fish but none of it made it where I could function the first day of my period. Maybe look into a different b/c that is less likely to have the weight gain as a side effect? As for the panic attacks the therapist should be able to teach you coping skills but in the mean time, try slow abdominal breathing, distracting yourself, and I read somewhere that things like potatoes are high in something (can't remember now) that helps w/ anxiety. Maybe look into a self help book too! The Anxiety and Panic Workbook by Bourne is good (I loaned mine out .... not bright). Anyhow, hope this helps!
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