I don't know if many of you recognise my name anymore, I haven't spent a lot of time on IES recently, but I've been a member since this new site first started up and I always found it really helpful when I was at my worst.
I find everyone's stories of recovery so inspiring, I am constantly amazed to hear from people who had hit rock bottom but still managed to bring themselves back up to normal life.
I thought I had a recovery story too. I decided against entering it officially in to the success stories section because it felt like jinxing it, but I did mention it elsewhere. I'd been getting better and better at dealing with my phobia over about 6 months, it was a real case of "feel the fear and do it anyway" but I was coping. Then in September I went to a friends 18th party, drank too much, and vomited several times for the first time in about 11 years.
It was an unpleasant experience but it came at just the right time, and it helped me put everything in to perspective. I found that when I was watching vomit scenes on tv, I wasn't just breathing through the panic, I simply wasn't feeling it in the same way anymore. Sudden moments would give me a little adrenaline shot still, but I more or less didn't notice.
For nearly 4 months I enjoyed watching new films without having to ask around about vomit scenes, and going on nights out without worrying who was drinking too much and who wasn't.
When I started university in late September I felt like I was ready for anything, and for a long time it was great. I was in a flat where drinking was a big thing, and I dealt fine with having a room next to the bathroom and hearing a lot of things I didn't want to. I never quite managed to be there for anyone to hold their hair back. I think I would have if I'd needed to, but as it was there was always someone else there to help, and as soon as I was sure that was the case I would slip out of the room, but it was never a case of panic and running away.
But now I'm getting scared.
Because in the past couple of weeks or so, its got a lot worse. I can't pinpoint when it happened, I just know that it has. I was watching a film with my housemates, and I knew there was a vomit scene coming up. I was really shocked to feel that I was panicking about it for the first time in months. I tried to sit there and wait it out, but I just couldn't and I had to leave.
There have been a few other incidents like that, and then yesterday everything came to a head. Firstly I heard a man at the bus stop over-coughing, and I jumped out of my skin, it made me anxious for the whole time I was there, and the bus journey after, despite the fact that he was not on it.
Then I got back home and started trying to read, when I heard my housemates boyfriend vomiting in the toilet next door (he has the flu and he'd coughed too much) and I started hyperventilating and grabbed for my earphones to blast some music.
Later that evening I had dinner, and I thought the chicken looked a little pale so I threw it away, and later that night I had a twinge in my stomach that induced the first real panic attack I'd had in months.
I'm absolutely furious with myself. I thought this f*cker was gone. I need advice about how to stop this, I don't know if theres a way to nip this in the bud but I need it gone. I can't go back to being scared all the time, I won't.
I had a normal life for a few weeks, I want it back.