I only found out very recently that emetophobia was recognized and so common among ppl. Before I thought I was alone, and as no one in my family had seen it before, they made me ashamed of my fear. I've had the fear since I was a young child, and at least twice in my life (I'm 22) it's flared up so that I would worry every day and nearly make myself sick just thinking about it. I also had trouble eating. I developed OCD, but it was always about food or "germs." Not until I heard about emetophobia and came here and lurked and learned did I realize just how much my fear of V* (as I see it put here) could have effected my life all this time.
But when I've looked at the posts here, I see how much everyone here is so terrified of it, and although I can't stop myself from feeling that terror whenever I hear that someone feels sick, has been sick, or was sick recently, I don't think my fear is as intense. If someone is feeling sick I'll interrogate them about why they feel that way, and I try to avoid sickness as much as I can, but I am able to think about it without much fear and even discuss it or see it on TV with only minor discomfort. Really my phobia springs up when rumor of an illness is floating around, or I overhear someone mention it, or especially when someone I live with gets sick.
For me it's been a shock to see how much emetophobia may have affected my life without my knowing it. If my fear was cured for instance, I think my OCD would go away, and the anxiety I sometimes feel socially, the unclean feeling I get, might leave too. And alcohol, I barely drink because it might make me V*. If I wasn't afraid, I wonder, would I be happier? But at the same time, if I am not truly an emetophobe, what am I? Am I just neurotic, or am I partially-cured...?
So my question was what exactly is the definition of a true emetophobe? Do I count, or am I just borderline? Does anyone else feel similarly?