Hi there
I joined this site last year after finally realising I was not alone and my madness was a real phobia. I have such an irrational fear of being ill that it makes me feel bad just thinking about it.
Nearly 2 years ago I was pregnant and was terribly sick with it and eventually miscarried. I think that this has definately contributed to my phobia being worse than ever.
My problem is I really want to start a family with my husband, but I am soooooo scared of morning sickness and that's not the half of it. If I managed to get through the pregnancy, how would I be with a child. They can get ill so easily. My cousin has a one year old, who constantly seems to be ill. Not just a cold or snuffles, but always sickness!
I know not all babies are the same and some maybe more prone to things than others, but I just cant handle the thought.
Please help me. I feel so depressed about this and just don't know what to do.
My family are supportive, but I don't feel they understand me. My husband finds it very frustrating that I can be so irrational. I just want to hide away!!