please don't use the word "weirdos" in describing emetophiliacs. quite a few members on this site are actually also emetophiliacs (personally, i'm not). over the years, we've offended quite a few people. emetophilia and emetophobia are actually quite similar... both derive from an obsession with v*. as emetophobics, we're not understood, and as emetophiliacs, they aren't either, and it would be painful to hear others refer to us as "weirdos". i hope i'm not coming off as a b*tch, i'm just trying to keep the peace here.

anyway, regarding your post... i completely feel your pain, and it's totally frustrating. i really wish that we could control where/when people v*. control (both of myself and others) is definitely a huge part of this phobia for me. ugh, but if you can't make it to the toilet and end up v* in front of someone's apt. door, at least have the decency to clean it up!