I'm not saying you (or any of us for that matter) should tip-toe around any subject for the sake of not causing fear. We shouldn't tell little, white lies or half-truths to make someone feel better, but we also shouldn't give out misinformation. That's not gonna help anybody. I totally get that you're not trying to convince everyone to stop kissing, but that's what your 'experience' could translate to in a very fearful person. Edited by: sherbear