I cant live like this anymore

[mike1990]

Everytime I talk to a girl or someone i find attractive, I get a nauseous feeling in my stomach and sometimes, when the topic gets emotional I throw up, especially at night. I am afraid to ask anyone on dates for the fear of throwing up during that date. Couple days ago I woke up and I was suppose to go to a concert that day, I guess the excitement or anxiety of it, made me really sick in my morning, I havent eaten anything that morning but I was throwing up even though nothing was coming out. Every morning I feel sick, like something is pushing out of the back of my throat to the top. My mom makes fun of me and screams at me for this, she thinks its a lack of sports or cause I go to sleep at around 3am every night. What should I do? I am 19 years old. Please help.

[john f.]

You should probably see a doctor.

[new.slang]

I agree, I think you need a doctor.

[alwaysafraid]

I'd go see a doctor too. You might be suffering from GERD or acid reflux and that's treatable. The symptoms might be agrivated by anxious situations for you. I know it sucks when you have no confidence to talk to girls...trust me, it's the opposite for me! I find it very hard to talk to guys, it makes me very anxious. And I'm in my 30's!! I think it goes along with having general anxiety and emet because I've had times in my life where it was better too. See your doctor about the stomach issues and do some work on your slef esteem/self confidence (read, therapy, etc.). You will find someone special (and I will too ). Good luck!

[nausea_hater]

it sounds to me like it might be severe GERD or reflux, see a doctor. and your mom sounds sorta evil, from what you said. tell her that it isnt funny.

also go to bed earlier, that might help a little. sometimes i get nauseous when i lose sleep.

[paulinek]

I agree with the reflux thing, but the fact you say you sometimes T* u* without anything actually coming up - dry heaves - can be an anxiety thing. If I get myself really really really upset or anxious over something i occasionally get the heaves which for an emet has got to be the most distressing symptom you can get!

Do see a doctor though as i'm sure there's something that can be done to relieve these distressing symptoms.

Good luck! Oh, and by the way, the nervousness when talking to someone you fancy - we've all been there i'm sure, the thing is when you meet the right person and you click you'll be so busy talking and getting along you will forget all that awkwardness. See if you can get a book on boosting self confidence or something and see if you can get a couple of tips in there too.

[stromko]

I was having constant nausea for months on end when my emetophobia began, saw lots of doctors and eventually discovered it was just anxiety. Once I was on an anti-anxiety medication (anti-depressants can work for this too, but don't let them stick you on Prozac or its variants!), I got a lot better.

That said, you may as well get checked out. If it really is something physical they can probably find out very soon.

[andee]

I am leaning more toward anxiety...there are lots of medications to help you, but definitely get it checked out, and be totally honest with your doc...

It seems like it happens when you get nervous about something, so a small anti-anxiety med will help "take the edge off," as they say...good luck, Mike.

[psalm139]

Well i have GERD and I don't *V*. but i do get nauseous after i eat sometimes. I do think it sounds like anxiety it is hard to talk to girls we are scary sometimes [img]smileys/smilies_02.gif[/img]

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