Hi Everyone-
I have had emetophobia since childhood and have recently had an exaccerbation of my panic since becoming a mother. I have a two year old and I am terrified that he will (and I know he will) bring home a s*v*. Like many people here I am terrified of v*ing.... the loss of control...the anticipation of "am I going to v*.....am I going to v*?"
I am terrified that my son or my husband will come down with a s*v* and the anticipation of whether or not I will catch it. I am scared that I will not be able to help my son if he v*s, that my fear will overpower my ability to take proper care of him physically and emotionally. I don't want to pass my phobia on to my son. (My mother was emetophobic as well).
It is now s*v* season and it is going around like wildfire here. Many of my son's friends and thier parents have had it just this week and I am terrified that we are next.
Can someone PLEASE offer some very practical tips on how to deal with this fear? I am planning on seeing a counselor who specializes in phobias but in the short term I need some quick tips. What has worked for you?
I have some phenegren pills from when I was pregnant and I have them on hand incase I get the s*v*. I know that v*ing is important, and normal and I am willing to do it once or twice because that is the body's natural way of getting rid of the virus.....but I am utterly terrified of that point when you are emptied out but your body still tries to v* and it is painful and way out of control. My plan is, incase I get the virus, to take the phenegren pills once I have v* a few times. I don't want to go into detail...but you know when you are emptied out.....it is at that point I would take the pills. Does that sound logical? That's the only short-term immediate strategy I have right now.
I would appreciate any advice. I am fearful of these boards because I come on here and inadvertently "learn" how to be a worse emetophobic by reading about other people's reactions to thier fear (intense handwashing, avoiding buffets, avoiding social gatherings). I don't like to do too much reading.
I am embarrassed to death that I have this problem, it feels so childish. But I have to deal with it if I want to be a good mother and not pass this fear on to my son like my mother passed it to me.
Any tips for dealing with the fear are appreciated.