Fairly New Here: Sort of Long
Hello All,
My name is Jennifer and I am fairly new here (recently able to post threads!). I'm 22 years old and have been living as an emet for as long as I can remember. My earliest experience was probably 4 or 5-ish. I used to ALWAYS wake up if my mom was s* in the middle of the night. I'd hear it and dig my fingers into my ears, covering them with my pillow, humming and making any noise to distract from the sounds. It was horrible! My first memory was when I was 4 or 5 and my mom had gotten up and been s*. I heard everything and instantly felt n*. I got up to go to my parents' room and yelled "Mommy!" I heard my mom say, "she's probably going to be s* too..." and I instantly v* all over the hallway floor. I don't have any memories of sexual or physical abuse. My parents were always great to me and never left anything lacking in my childhood. My mom was always kind of "squeemish" when it came to anyone getting s* in front of her. She would often gag and dry heave. I guess I picked up on it. She was never an emet, though. She never feared it. If she felt ill, she just gave in and would get s*. She also has a weak stomach when it comes to blood, guts, and gore also, which I never had. I was a CNA for 5 years and cleaned PLENTY of poopy messes. Never bothered me in the slightest. I rarely had to deal with v* and when I did, I would panic for the rest of the day. Now, I am in college and made a major career change. I'm currently working in an elementary school with preschoolers (3 and 4 year-olds). I've only been working there for two months now and have dealt with v* twice.
I take Paxil for anxiety and it really helps when I take it how I'm supposed to (one tablet per day). If I skip out on more than 2 days (because I often forget to take it), my anxiety is HORRIBLE. I recently had to go to the emergency room because I hadn't taken it in 3 weeks. I was having horrible emet tendencies and was n* constantly everyday, all day long for about 1 week. The night I went to the E.R., I had laid in bed for two days, crying and sobbing for no reason. I had no idea the withdrawl symptoms of anxiety medicine was so intense.
I'm so glad to find that I'm finally not alone. Until about three weeks ago, I had no clue there were even others who suffered from such horrible fears of v*. I'm married and my husband is pretty supportive. He gets frustrated a lot of times, though, because he doesn't understand why it's such a big deal. I told him about this site and that it felt so nice to be able to relate to others who had the same fears as I. He totally supports me in it. I just wish I could make him understand why I get so worked up when I feel the least bit n*. And why I HAVE to be home, away from everyone, including him. I literally go in my room, lock the door, and grab the trashcan and Pepto (just in case). It's frustrating to me too.
We have been married for almost two years and are planning on going to the fertility specialist this spring. I'm scared to death I'll have horrible m.s. and won't be able to deal with it. When I'm terribly n*, I often think to myself, "There's no WAY I can endure a pregnancy. I can't even deal with it NOW...what about then when I have NO control over n*?!" I'm soooo scared and anxious about it. Anyone been thru ms.? How did you deal with it? Did you ever actually v*? And what about labor and delivery? I've heard of SEVERAL women v* during labor and delivery. I'm most scared about this because I'll have no freedom to leave the room to get away from everyone else, and I obviously can't make everyone else leave the room just because I have to v*. Please help! I'm terrified!
Jennifer
"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So, love the people who treat you right, forgive the ones who don't and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it! Nobody said it'd be easy, they just promised IT WOULD BE WORTH IT!"
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