Hi everyone,
I cannot write here how I overcame it or what treatments worked for me because I didnt have any treatment nor do I know what actually made me better: but what I hope to write here is the sheer difference in me since two years ago and that it is possible for you all to get to this stage: it just takes a perceverance thats all.
Ok, so to paint a picture of how bad I was two years ago I will quickly tell you about one night out of hundreds: I had been awake having non stop panic attacks for over 24 hours, I was sitting down for only 2 minutes at a time before having to get up and go for a walk. I would come back, have another panic attack and have to walk again. I would be sipping water contantly and crying non stop for the duration. This happened pracicaly every night for a year.
Today, I am not completely without the fear of being s*.... and if I feel nauseas I do have a tiny ounce of panic inside, but this quickly goes away.
I am now only washing my hands after the toilet, and dont ever ever think about the supposed 'outbreaks'. I eat my steak rare and now drink alcohol again.
I dont even think about it at all anymore: literally never.
I am like a completely different person now: I go to work, socialise with friends and generally live my life how I always dreamt of doing when in the grips of emetaphobia.
I think the main things that helped me to get over it was that I had had enough of the panic attacks. I ended things with my boyfriend whom wasnt helping, I concentrated on doing the things I wanted to do like joining a theatre society and moving jobs.
Everytime I had a thought about it, I would say to myself, 'I do not ever want to feel like this again and I dont want to think about you' and then go and do something that you enjoy. I ate regular meals, little and often of the food I fancied and slowly my appitite came back and with this the nausea stopped because it turns out guys, not eating makes things a lot worse!
Also, after watching and observing people cook, and seeing that they are never ill from the way they do it: forse yourself to trust them. Trust that you have an irrational fear of things and eventually have them cook for you a meal they cook often and are never ill from etc.
The more you do this things you you fear and nothing comes of them, then the better you will be.
Another thing I did was stop reading news articles and stopped coming on here, it really helped.
I just rationalised with myself that illnesses have been around forever: ones much much worse than what we have now. Cholera and the plague have swept through britain in the past and yet now we have every means possible to simply live healthily and slightly more careful..... but we dont by any means need to go OTT with cleanliness: think of the fact that people survived a fairly long time without much soap or a decent waste disposal system etc.
the more you do things and watch things happen and realise that you wont get ill: the easier it will be to do them and then evenually will become normal to do these things.
I have sooo much more to say but will leave that for any coments or responces to this
So sorry its been such a long post!! :-s
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