Re: Newbie here - terrified of my son v*ting...
You are most certainly welcome here! I haven't been here for even a week myself, but I will welcome you anyway; and my dear, you have no reason to apologize. It's the best thing in the world to let everything out like that.
You will find the common trait of people feeling bad about not being able to help friends/family members/children here, so you must know that you are not alone in that field. I don't know about children (much too young), but I still know with family members and friends.
Through this site, I hope you find much comfort, and techniques taught to other members here that can be passed onto you, and hopefully help you through this, even in a small bit!
I have just three things to teach: Simplicity, patience, and compassion. These three are your greatest treasures.- Lao-tzu