kissing.

[crazybeautiful]

i think there was another thread on this, but i couldn't find it, so i'm starting a new one.


are any of you out there with boyfriends/girlfriends afraid to be intimate with/kiss your partner for fear of catching something? if so how do you deal, if not, how do you push those worries aside?

[jennyleigh1975]

I only really get worried if he has been sick or been around someone who has been sick, well, sick in the vomit way. Like the last time he was sick, after taking care of our daughter who was sick, I dont think I kissed him for a week. I wouldnt let him kiss me right in the face either, much less on the lips. He was really starting to get ticked off at me toward the end of the week, but oh well .............. I couldnt help it!

[madisonsmom]

I "quarenteen" (sp) my husband if he has had a stomach virus. I dont wanna go anywhere near him. I used to be able to sleep in the same bed with him if he was sick.....NOT NOW!

[hippychick]

I always thought I would have a problem with kissing...but then I met my (now Ex) Girlfriend and it never bothered me. I dont know why, but then i always found i was calmer around her anyway, my food rules didnt matter so much nd kissing.....No way i would have stopped...unless she was V* ing of course!

[sunshine16]

Yes,
to me, if you're ready to kiss, they're ready to understand you, and
you are comfortable with them. For this reason, I do not worry or find
the thought of kissing someone I love nerve-wracking.

By the way...

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[lelam]

my boyfriend was sick and i didnt kiss him for a week and still i tend to think about it everytime we kiss now, i cant get it off my mind! i hate this monster phobia. it does keep me more away from him and it makes me feel low!

[crazybeautiful]

Hmm...all interesting answers. I just started dating my boyfriend and we spend ALOT of time together...kiss alot and such.


I'm just worried 'cause I hear that stomac bugs are contagious before hand, but I really try not to think about it and just enjoy.

[Abi]

I'm afraid of kissing and stuff. I'm afriad of even touching somebody else. I've not ever had a boyf, so I have no idea what I'd be like if I did. I think I would be petrified of catching things though. I don't event trust my family - use separate hand towels and stuff.

[holly18]

isnt a stomach bug only contagious from the first time the person v*? iv bene with my bf nearly 3 years and i stil worry sometimes. There have been times where i have been with him one night, and the next morning he gets sick and i end up in such a state about it! i really hope the above is true and that hes not contagious untill he actually gets sick. hes hygiene isnt up to emet standard either which drives me mad! like if we are at the town and he wants something to eat, which is normally fast food, i offer him hand sanitiser and he turns it down and just eats it without washing his hands first! when we first got together we were in macdonalds and he took his burger out of the wrapper, and put it directly onto the tabel! i had a fit! lol

[auggiedoggie12]

Well. I AM PROBABLY A SLUT....


Vomiting scares the s*** out of me, BUT I dont even think about it when i have a hunk of manflesh in front of me.


I am not scared to be intimate at all.


OF course if we were making out all night and then he tells me that he has been throwing up all dayl, I would be scared s***less but I would never stop tapping the booty.


There is Viagra but they need a "control your inner slut" pill. I would take one at times.


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[crazybeautiful]

hmmmm..alright. not sure where to go with that...haha.


i just try to enjoy the moment and NOT worry. but you know how the emet mind works!

[terified girl]

If he tells me he's been feeling funny all day, I do stay away from him, but otherwise I just push it out of my mind because if I don't do that, I will NEVER kiss him or anyone again, and I love my bf too much, and I always tell myself, if I do catch something from him, then it was going to happen anyways!


Enjoy kissing your bf!

[jptk]

I used to be with this girl and once we went out and had a great night, just a good laugh and stuff. As i was walking her home she told me she was v.... all day and still felt sick, then she said she didnt tell me before we went out cause she knew i would have stayed home[img]smileys/smilies_07.gif[/img]. I was terrified for ages and coulnt leave my room! We didnt last long after that i tell ya

[crazybeautiful]

OH GOD. if a guy did that to me, i'd be furious!!! Did you get sick from her?!?!

[jptk]

No, i felt really ill but i think that was just me being really anxious about it. I am so paranoid about it these days but i cant really just ask someone out of the blue if they have been ill today, especially if its the first time ive gone out with them[img]smileys/smilies_06.gif[/img]