I've been looking for a thread like this but couldn't find one, which suprised me, so if I've missed it, ignore this post and please show me the link to the "original" thread, thanks!
I just wanted to know YOUR best tips and tricks to beat the fear, anxiety, what you guys do when you actually feel sick and stuff like that. We can learn from each other, and maybe even find new ways of "surviving" this terrible phobia.
My tips when i feel a panic attack coming or when my anxiety is "building up":
1. This is some what of avoidance, which my therapist doesn't recommend because you need to "face your fears" to get rid of them or to handle them better. But sometimes I just get up, go for a walk, clean the house, walk my dog. Other times I draw, do my homework (something challenging, so that your mind focuses on something other than the fear).
2. Sit comfortably on your bed, or on the floor with a pillow, and meditate. Feel the fresh air filling your lungs, and imagine that you are breathing all the anxiety out of your system when you exhale. This helps me alot in the "early stages" of my anxiety build-up. Can also work during a panic attack, because your breathing is key to not go into complete panic-mode!
3. When really scared, especially when I'm not at home, I sometimes sit down in the room that I'm in and I count all the things that are white. Or if your in a brown kind of room, count all the brown things. When I'm done with that I go back and tell myself about each white thing and what that thing is used for, and I make up alternative uses for it. Sounds stupid, but it's a really, really good de-focus technique that has helped me alot when at school and things like that.
Here goes my tips when my stomach is upset because of fear, or just generally and upset stomach:
1. I always drink soda. My mom always told me when I was younger that if I drank soda I wouldn't get sick, and since then I've been addicted to sodas. Can't go anywhere outside my house without a soda. Plus, the bubbles may make you burp (this scares me sometimes, but it helps to get the "gas" out of your system when you feel bloated or just in general!).
2. I eat something salty, because salt binds the food in your stomach. Also I eat dry crackers or chips, because the dryness will also bind the food that's in your stomach. I also find it easier to get down than a full-on dinner when I'm in a scared state of mind.
3. Go to the bathroom. This is hard for me because the thought of maybe getting d* scares the crap (literally) out of me, but if you "empty" your system you are much less likely to actually v*. I've had stomach flues and viruses and infections without v*, just d*, and ofc I think the d* is way better than to v*. I feel if I empty my stomach when it needs to, I won't v*, and it has worked every time, so!
3. Ginger-pills, ginger tea, or things like that. I was sick to my stomach this summer with a stomach virus, and the minute i swallowed a ginger-pill, the n* went away COMPLETELY. It might have been some what of a placebo effect, but I was truly sick with a virus, so I'm pretty sure it really worked well.
Here is some of my tips and tricks I use, I would like to know what YOU do to win over your fear (because thats what you do every time you survive a panic-attack, or survive a night with n*, so hurray for you!!)
Love,
Camilla.