I remember a couple of weeks ago I came on here and I was looking for encouragment. I came across a girl's post and it angered me more than I could even explain. In her post she was saying, and I'm so sorry if the girl who wrote that post is reading this, I feel ZERO anger towards you now =), that if someone is afraid to go to work to just go and be the best employee and if you're afraid to hold your child while they are sick to just do it. It angered me because, at the time, I thougth she sounded like the rest of society telling us that V* really isn't that big of a deal and we're just being babies and there is some sort of off switch. I wrote her a looooong message that I never did send because I knew I would regret it later. OH MY GOSH, I am so glad I didn't because partly due to her post I feel more empowered. Although I don't believe at all in and "off" switch to this phobia, I do believe it is possible to grab the fear by the horns so to speak. I'm going to school and getting a degree in science which includes taking a class in anatomy. Now that i understand the body more and I understand that it is soooo normal to V, however uncomfortable and scary it is at the time, the body is designed in a way that it is normal to V.
With that knowledge of the body and seeing the cartoon pictures of the organs and the stomach, it just helped me understand the, almost, mystery of V. I'm not saying this is everyone's "cure" but when I was drowning in my fear I wanted ANY TYPE of suggestion to help me conquer this fear, or at alease live a fairly normal life, so here is my suggestion to someone else. I am still 100% afraid to V, I know the day I finally do I will be freaking out, but I don't dwell on it like I used to and I sleep at nights. My hands are no longer cracking and bleeding from constant hand washing and I am now eating food that isn't over cooked. I don't stay up all night knocking on things and scratching myself. I feel like I can breathe again. I also focused on what my "triggers" are and I have eliminated them from my life. My 24th birthday is next week and my husband and I will be going out to eat for it. Something I haven't done in over a year.
I knew that I would never "get over" my phobia, but I wanted to only be afriad when need be. I didn't want to think about it everyday all day. V is scary for almost everyone emetophobe or not, it's extremely uncomfortable and pretty freakin gross. I finally got to this stage. Think of it like this, pretend I'm terrified of dogs instead of V. I wanted to only be afraid when a "dog" was right there, because there is no way to change that really, instead of dwelling on when I would eventaully run into a "dog" again. As well as constantly thinking there was a "dog" nearby when there wasn't (I hope everyone is picking up on my example lol) I am now at the point, using the same dog example, that I am still terrified of "dogs" but they don't haunt my every waking moment.
I really hope this is of some encouragment to people and I suggest looking at the science behind V, It doesn't hurt to try. =)
God Bless!